Newbie - FAQ

Good advice ... I would add 3 things
babycakes90 1716 reads
posted
1 / 10

so far I have had 4 clients made a decent amount of money. However for those more,experience escorts.,Are there any ways that I can ensure that,my clients come back to me? Also how can I thoughouly screen them as I arrive to their place or they to mine?
So far I am not regretting leaving,mcdonalds

beach6216 8 Reviews 348 reads
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2 / 10

I'm not a provider but from a guy's point of view I'd say just use common sense.  Provide them with a great session.  Act as if you're just giddy at the thought of seeing them...smile, laugh, be relaxed.  Read some reviews they have written before the session so you have an idea of what their likes and dislikes are.  Don't be a clock-watcher (within reason).  Be seductive, sensual...treat them as if they were your boyfriend you haven't seen in a month.

The most common complaints I read about are rushed sessions, dirty rooms, smoke smell or ladies that seem distracted.

:)

palomamontecarlo See my TER Reviews 378 reads
posted
3 / 10

Your question pertains to regulars, the first step is to be yourself. As strange as that sounds, there is nothing more upsetting for guys than a girl who pretends to be somebody who she is not. Treat your dates with kindness and show empathy. When people come to meet me, my incall turns into a total relaxation venue: candles, music etc.. Offer them a beverage not necessarily alcoholic, have a positive attitude during the session and listen to what they like but don't go outside your values/menu to attempt to please them. Remember, this is a service, we more likely return to
Places with high standards of quality and where we feel welcome e.g hairdresser, nail salon etc. Also keep in mind that even after what I mentioned before, chemistry is very important. Chemistry is a strong element when having repeated business because no matter what happens when the connection exists is just wonderful! As far as screening, my feeling is that being that your are new, you could benefit from a mentor or an assistant. Having dates is great but more important is to be safe. I am not only talking about LE, in many cases you could encounter violent people reason why, screening from every angle is essential to continue meeting people without issues.

brilove See my TER Reviews 331 reads
posted
4 / 10

Be yourself ... Yes show enthusiasm but don't fake ... Guys can tell usually.

Be intuitive ... Figure out what they like by reading body language and doing things that excite them.

Be memorable ... Do something no matter how small that stands out.

1736687 15 Reviews 331 reads
posted
5 / 10

Palomam is completley correct.. I have gone back to providers where there was chemistry .. those that regard me as a friend..and those that don't follow a formula.. like: OK, step1: Take of your clothes..; Step 2: BJ..;Step 3: condom; Step 4 sex; step 5 :clean up; step 6: out the door.  

It's nice not to feel that you are being processed with the process simply extracting money..I can't speak for everyone.. but Intimacy is important.. Just a cum dump is easy..harder to develop something that matters.

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 281 reads
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6 / 10

Superior service is the best way to get repeat business from your clients, but there is no guarantee as some guys never repeat with any provider.  As far as screening goes, each provider has her own methods of doing it.  You might try contacting one of the more successful ladies near you for some advice, you're not likely to get much in an open forum, as many providers are very secretive when it comes to how they screen.

If you haven't read the self help center yet, do it now.

Swim

harborview 10 Reviews 211 reads
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7 / 10

You don't 'own' me nor I you.  It's said that you don't pay a provider to come...  but pay her to LEAVE with no fuss or drama!  
If you want to get & retain clients...  real & recent pictures of yourself.  This is the biggest opportunity to sell your services.  Part of the service is the "sizzle" like a hot steak at the steak house.  Guys are very visual.  
Give good service, Always.  I recall mentioning my disability to a couple of Gals.  One said "It won't be a problem"  the other said I didn't need to pay for more than an hour...  that we'd finish what we started (and we did).  I file this under a good attitude.  Mostly we finish on time But if we ran over a few minutes, IT's no big deal as there is time between clients.  She does not quit!  Now we have an understanding...  we will try my suggestions early on.  IF they aren't working, she has my agreement to change positions & activities.  At that point, I need my pop & how is much less important.  She is sensitive to my reactions & my needs...    
For instance a progression might be Missionary > CG > BBBJ (no hands) > BBBJ + hands > HJ.    
 
You need to be an excellent time manager But in such a way that the client is not aware of your doing so.
You must be a great actress.  
And your services do not exist in a vacuum...  you want to charge enough to make money but you need to provide good value compared to the local market.  While you are building your client base, I'd recommend adding a into special...  extra 15 minutes free...  (You still make the same money but have to work a bit longer for it.)  If you plan a rest hour in between, that will cut into your rest time...  but still leave you 45 minutes.  
You don't want to be too much below the local market...  some guys would take advantage.  Other guys would be scared off...  might be a scam or a LE Sting.  

This is a lot.  You are getting started.  If you provide good services at a competitive cost, you'll do fine.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 245 reads
posted
8 / 10

coming back for more. As has been said, some guys just don't repeat period so don't take it personal if guys don't contact you for a repeat date.

Good luck.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 212 reads
posted
9 / 10

I treat every client different there is no routine.  Everyone has different desires that tickel their fancy.  I find a niche that makes me unique & utilize my assets to be a better provider.  I utilize google for everything.  Sometimes I pm hobbist & providers to inquire in private if I value their opinions.  Always be yourself because you do not want to spend your life faking it to be someone your not.  We providers have the best job in the world & if you truly love what you, do then you never really work a day in your life.  I prefer to play!  lol Smile 4 me & have fun

harborview 10 Reviews 322 reads
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10 / 10

we are comfortable in.  Various personas in the family, perhaps a (Civie) work persona or 2.  I have...   and others have...  had ladies let us into their real personas & sometimes they are very different from the one we knew...  or not...    
Some gals invent a separate work persona...  sometimes totally fake...  but to divert discussion away from their non-pro life.  
But I submit it must be in their comfort zone...  

Back to the original Question, how to get repeat clients...  beyond the quality service I already mentioned...  I have to feel some connection.  While we both know (though perhaps choose to pretend) the BF / GF relationship, there must be some connection.  While not FRIENDS, I like to think we are friends.  There is a basic trust required...  in both directions...

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