But I do not see it on my TER profile.  I have not had time to write the review since we just parted a couple of hours ago.  I had a nice time, and this was a very nice girl down here visiting from Seattle.  

...check "Show Whitelist" on your TER page and it will show on your profile along with any reviews that are posted.

A little impatient if you ask me. It can be a little bit of a challenge to locate the TER screen to white list someone, if she's never done it before.  

But that is not what he is asking. He knows how to find his whitelists.

If she doesn't have the free limited provider VIP she won't be able to white list you. Even though she may have reviews she has to request to free provider VIP. She can only do that if she has at least one review. This is explained in the Self-Help Center under the "Some Info for Providers" link.