I've seen a number of providers over the years, but almost without exception it was a case of in-call--me going to an MP or the provider's rooms for services.

Last summer, however, I came across a provider who was outcall only. We found a motel, but I simply didn't know how to handle registering without creating a paper trail on the credit card. She put the room on her charge, and I reimbursed her.

So: If I want to preserve the relationship I have w/ my SO, how can I check in to a motel for fun? (Boy, do I feel a newbie!) Here are the hoops I'm obsessing over before I jump 'em:
What risks, if any, are there in acquiring a room (out of town, I assume) for a meeting w/ a provider (not a room for a convention but a meeting with the provider alone)?
Will motels take cash? Do you still have to secure the room w/ a credit card?
Can you just leave the room after the deed is done (keys on the table)? Or do you have to check out?
I'm not planning on staying the night, just finding a good place to do deeds, then get back to the real world.
And, finally, what's better for anonymity: the larger facility or a smaller independent place? (I'm thinking larger and more costly...)
Thanks.

Will motels take cash?

Yes, with proper ID
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Do you still have to secure the room w/ a credit card?

No
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Can you just leave the room after the deed is done (keys on the table)? Or do you have to check out?

Just leave the keys and leave your fantasy behind
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I'm not planning on staying the night, just finding a good place to do deeds, then get back to the real world.
And, finally, what's better for anonymity: the larger facility or a smaller independent place? (I'm thinking larger and more costly...)
Thanks.

I don't think either really cares who you are as long as you don't trash the place or steal the towels.

Smaller motels like "Motel6, Days Inn, Travel Lodge, etc., accept cash & you can leave the keys in the room or use express checkout.

Larger hotels " Hilton, Holiday, etc., you may need credit card and id to secure a room. You can always pay cash upon checkout.

...you may want to ask the provider if she has any particular hotel/motel that provides a short stay rate.  These places typically have lots of people doing what you're doing and take cash, etc., and also understand privacy.  There are any number of such places in my neighborhood.