Quick question I hope you folks can help me out... I've been looking at the board here for years... occasionally posted.... but have been out of the hobby for years now... and am going to be getting back in.... I'm sure the answer is obvious.... but I have a question.... having not seen a provider in a few years.. I have no references..... should I just join up with preferred 411 date check  etc?.... or is there an obvious  answer that is eluding me?..... thanks for the help guys in ladies.

I was in the same position about 1 month ago. After I joined P411, it became so much easier. Of course, you are limited to "No Reference Necessary" ladies listed on P411 at first, but it's whole lot easier to get 2 references this way.

Hey Jammy,

Yea, it's best to get verified through Preferred 411 or Date Check.

Since you've been out of the hobby for some time, the old reviews and references are most likely outdated and not very useful in the present day.

Either verification place should do the job.

Good luck!

sunrosc

I signed up for TER VIP, Datecheck and p411. Sure, that's an upfront expense, but how much is it compared to what you're going to pay for this over the course of a year? Plus, it's so over the top that it's convincing when you're a newb and generally draws a laugh from the ladies. It works. Good way to get started.

Thank you so much for the help guys I appreciate it.