I am trying to arrange a visit to my hotel in a city I will be visiting next week.  I know it is a very broad question, but is there anything I should be concerned about?   I am a bit nervous about having someone come to my room.

I remember the first time I had some one visit , I was bouncing off the walls alternating between worry over every little thing and first time excitement/jitters.
What i took away from that session was while a little concern is normal i was worrying too much. I had chosen a well reviewed lady, who upon arrival immediately gave me a huge kiss and said we are going to have fun.

We Did!!

Bottom line: Do your research, Relax, Have a great SAFE experience.

Which is, of course, do your research! Make sure the lady you're seeing has been established as safe and reliable through reviews or word of mouth, is discreet, and is someone who provides a quality experience.

A couple of things you might want to check out for the lady before she arrives: whether or not the elevator requires a key card to operate, where the elevators are located (so she doesn't wander around the lobby like a lost lamb), if there is free parking or valet only, and that she has the exact address of the hotel. ("The Marriott by DFW airport", for example, could be one of at least three hotels!)

I was on the consierge floor once that you had to key the elevator to go up to that particular floor  Not a good thing for a lady not to know.  When I am in D.C. I make sure the lady knows about the valet parking and I give her a tip to cover the cost.  I also make sure the lady has the exact address.  The one place I like to stay is the Marriott Crystal City in Arlington.  Metro access right under the building and with the shops there also you can skip the lobby and go right up from the bottom floor...

You may want to read her reviews, with special attention to how she dressed.  Most ladies are smart enough to look sexy, yet professional.  Think of the scene in Pretty Woman where JR is wandering around dressed like a streetwalker in an upscale hotel.  You don't want to deal with that.

Lol thats actually a very good point. I remember a time in Daytona Beach, way before being in the biz, that we saw a girl coming out of a fairly upscale hotel wearing a stripper-esque dress and no shoes. Made ya wonder.

as to where to park (side or front of hotel), location of elevators, and walking pattern upon entering the lobby.  For example:
"Enter the front doors of the hotel, walk to your right and take any elevator to the 8th floor.  Exit the elevator and turn left in the hallway.  My room is halfway down the hall--#824.

Now, which lady is coming up tonight?

Good advise here.  
I've had to look up an exact street address...  fortunately there was only one...  but would have been impossible once I'd left home (I don't have mobil internet).  With these days of GPS, a nearby  address to call from (for us guys) is such a help.  

Have the correct donation ready, though not necessarily out before arrival.  You do not EVER mention what is about to happen, you both know why you're there.  You place the envolupe, turn away & do not look again.  She'll pick it up when she's ready.  

I had a first date with a delightful lady recently...  she had a chair placed just so to recieve my clothes, she stripped me & put them there neater than I would have myself.  All very nice touch.

I would not offer alcohol on a first date but soft drinks or water is nice, maybe a quick light snack (a few crackers & cheese) depending on the time & duration you have planned.  I like 1 or 2 candles (be sure they're safe).  Some mood music helps to cover sounds.  I hate sex in front of normal TV!  Don't go overboard with the preparations.      

I don't like to have a clock staring me in the face but there should be one to glace at from time to time.  My Fav's are very good at time management without letting me be aware of it.

Just my thoughts.
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as i had a request for sexy professional attire for my date this evening.  I had my strappy black shoes on, a skirt (with a pretty high slit), red shirt (with pretty low cleavage and a jacket.  It's funny how many heads turned.  But first thing out of the guys mouth was "wow you look hot and better than your pics".  He was very happy so that is all I cared about.  Everyone else, well I acted very normal...Even got the attention of this teenage guy with his parents.  Was pretty funny as he couldn't talk to his parents much after seeing me.. It's fun to turn heads....

I've had hotel outcalls several times (in seattle) - and have never had a problem.  However, the first time, i did take some precautions like hiding my wallet and watch and only taking out the money that I needed.  I've only used an agency for outcalls because that's generally safer.  Good luck.