If a provider gets a hotel room for incall (her idea, not mine; she has no permanent incall), should I donate more than her listed rate? If so, how much more?

She probably has a bit more experience at this and thus has factored in the pricing of the incall location to her rates. If you want to pay more (thus leaving a tip), that is totally a personal decision. Make sure you check her website as some providers have different rates for incall vs outcall. You will want to pay the right rate.

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If she is set up for in calls that day and seeing clients you are under no obligation to help pay for the room.  Even if she is just seeing you, unless she asks you, you are not responsible for helping pay.

To be honest, If I see a gal and she is just seeing me I prefer to get the room but if she insists I will let her and generally tip a bit to help out with her overhead.  This is not expected but a tip is alway appreciated for whatever reason you give it.

Agree with Boston guy on this one.  I will tip especially if the service is above average.

Unless she volunteers that info (and then it may or not even be true, just to make you think she is seeing you special that day) I would never ask.

I get that question often.  I don't know if they're just trying to make conversation or have a morbid curiosity.  No matter if I do or don't, I feel uncomfortable answering them.  I really don't want to say "None of your f'ing business nosey".  So I just smile and shrug and give the ol Clinton excuse "I don't recall".

I'm personally fond of nooners, both because I am at my peak and because I hope that I might not be more than the second guy the lady has seen that day.  One time when I was with a lady who was visiting and had just gotten in the night before, just as she was pulling off my boxers, she told me that I was the first "friend" (air quotes hers) she had seen so far.  I certainly had not asked, but it made me feel relaxed and kind of special that she would volunteer this info, and I imagined that she had been pretty much waiting for me since she checked into the hotel.  She promptly crushed that by adding "...well, today."

And if you don't know for sure I would always assume that you are not.

I see only a few regular ladies and have known them for a while. most of them are UTR and don't advertise.  If we make arrangements to meet I am her only appointment that day.

will use a variety of hotels in and around a given area.  Otherwise, how do you explain living one or two towns over and checking into the same hotel every day?

Generally what they will do is set a schedule of the area they intend to work in that week, or for part of a week and announce it on their regional board.  However, if they do not have appointments scheduled for a specific day, and you are asking to meet in a specific area... they will often honor your request and then try to book more appointments in that area... which then helps them cover the cost of the hotel.

If the provider has indicated that she is offering you an incall appointment at a hotel, chances are she is covering the cost of the hotel.  Whether you choose to tip her something extra is a decision that should be based on service and not due to the costs associated with providing the location.  Providers who do have permanent incall locations have the same expense, but rather in the form of rent and utilities.  They do not ask gentlemen to cover this cost.

The only exception being if you are looking for an appointment some distance from them and in a high priced area, to suit your schedule.  In this instance, if she is catering to your desire, she may ask you to pay for the entire cost of the room or part of it.  For instance, a suburban Chicago provider may be able to find a hotel room for $150, but downtown Chicago a room would be $400 and up.

SINfully sinthia

I have had guys ask for an appointment at 1:00 p.m. and then tell me they want to be my first appointment that day???  Hello.  Reality check here.  I generally wake up before the crack of noon.  

Yes, there are days when my first appointment will be in the afternoon, but as a low volume provider, I can never be sure.  In reality, my schedule depends on the times that guys ask to meet as many have open time slots in their "work day" when they can sneak out, or limited evening hours when they are "at the gym." *wink*

Most providers, including myself, are reluctant to discuss our schedules with clients.  The only thing that matters is that when it comes time for their appointment; we are energetic, sexy, erotic and ready to have some fun!

SINfully sinthia

for that hour.  Unless I booked a half hour.  

I never see more than one friend a week, and seriously haven't seen more than one a day in at least a year or more.


The past couple of months I have only seen two different friends, a couple times of course, but really, the number of reviews I have (on a different board, I've never been reviewed here) are about all the guys I have ever seen.


I guess most ladies are in this to "get rich", not "get by", which is basically what I've been doing the past couple of years with so many other things keeping me busy in my life.

Planning to get myself out there a little more this year.

xoxo
Kim

(Candlelight Kim on the big dog-Ct)