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Freebies or Discounts
jewelsz1979 11 Reviews 2403 reads
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I know that some providers give a couple dollars off to repeat clients and you can almost always find providers that offer specials. When a provider offers specials does this mean less service? Not into it? Rushing me out the door? Should I expect this type of service because I chose to take advantage of the special/discount rate? Will she see me as being cheap?

My second question goes to experienced hobbyists and providers. Is it at all possible to get a freebie? I've seen a provider once who no longer posts that asked me to stay for round 2 just because we were so in sync. She didn't charge me for the extended time almost like I was doing her a service as well.

Dr Who revived 544 reads
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SomeHumorName 774 reads
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Provides are not going to give you a couple of dollars off, its usually $50, $30, $20 or so, nothing like $1, $2, $5 or anything like that. Yes, providers will give repeat clients discounts, but you have to make sure that they are willing to. Providers do offer specials, and it does not mean that the service will be less. First, make sure she has a review, that way, if she does offer specials, you at least know the type of service & performance you will get. No, most of the times when they offer specials, they just want to get their expenses covered and so on. Usually, the service will be the same, they will not rush you out the door, or not be into it (thats why you have to check out the review). I can be wrong also, you may get inadequate service. Providers do not know your income, so they do not make judgments of you being cheap-- they offered the specials. I have a good income, and still use coupons when I am at the grocery store, that doesn't make me cheap, I want to save if its available. Freebies., I don't know about that one. I never had one before. I guess it depends on the provider. I guess if you seen her enough times and talked about it, I guess so.

OldTraveler 40 Reviews 690 reads
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I have gotten discounted rates on a number of occasions and it has never meant lower quality of service.  A lady's level of service is typically constant--discounts are a business strategy.

Discounts for loyal customers are typical in all businesses.  Sometimes she has a particular need:  tuition is due, rent, a recent move, etc.  Or she is tring to establish a client base in a new location, or new days of the week.  Or she is traveling and had some cancelations a day before she arrives in town.  none of these equate to reduced service.

The biggest caution I would give you is never confuse extra time with free time.   They are very, very different things.  If you have paid for a two hour session then she has already paid for the room (assuming it is an incall), transportation, make-up.  If she is indeed enjoying her time with you and has nothing scheduled afterwards what is her marginal cost of having you stay an extra while?  A little lost sleep?  Maybe a few dollars more for the sitter?  That is a very small price for her to enjoy relaxig with someone she hopes might become  frequent visitor.  If you have offered her a drink at the bar or dinner afterwards it is a potential win/win.  Compair that with a "free" hour:  all that work she puts into looking great, the cost of transportation, the room, etc., are NOT free for her.

Yes, she probably did enjoy your date, but do not presume you are doing her a service in the same way. Accept it for what it is--do ot get gready.

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