What are the rules in regards to soliciting reviews from members of verification sites? As a new provider, Im really trying to figure out how to meet gentlemen who are members of these sights if I'm not a member myself. Im totally lost on how to go about this. Does openly requesting to meet w/verification site members for review purposes go against hobbying ettiquette???

I've seen this done before, and actually responded to one.  she brought it up as part of another discussion on a regional board. Her timing was really good, it wasn't out of place at all. She simply stated, that she was looking for her first review. she had to reviews by the following week. Get involved on your regional board, and I'm sure someone will jump at the opportunity to take 1 for the team.

DateCheck and P411 do have ad boards on their sites for providers to advertise their availability.  If you are not a member of the site, I would think that you could not place an ad on them.  You can place an ad on your regional ad board on this site once every 7 days.  Read the self help center to get the TER policies for placing ads here.  

The one thing TER will not allow you to do is advertise discounted rates, or exchanging sessions, for reviews.  That will likely get you banned from the site.  I do think it would be ok to indicate that you are looking for reviews, just don't offer anything in exchange for the review in the ad.  Since DC and P411 are not review sites, it should be ok to mention in your TER ad that you are looking for members of those sites for clients.

Swim

Join Date-Check and p411. Ask potential clients to get prescreened through that.

But also post ads on the providers ad board in your city. Always post a pic (one of your best) with your TER ads and include your stats (height, bust, etc), email and if you want phone. Always include a link to your outside ad (Eros, P411, etc.).

If in NY, don't post the ad on Mondays or Tuesdays. Do it on Wednesdays b/c all visiting girls and agencies post on M & T and those posts push down earlier posts making earlier posts disappear.

Try to say something in your ad that expresses who your are, your personality. You don't need to say a lot and merely reusing your website copy can be boring. Check this ad by a provider who made a splash in NYC. What's interesting to me as a guy is how much personality she shows. It was successful: Check her view count on the ad.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=88&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&Search=Frenchie&SearchType=1&DayFrom=60&DayTo=0&MessageID=11966&frmSearch=1#11966

Finally, consider offering a temporary discount for a period of time before you get X number of reviews. Angelina Nemcova in NYC did that for about a month, initially offering a $600 donation but explicitly stating it would rise to $1,000 once she got 10 reviews. It worked - the first 10 reviews rolled in quickly and she's been at $1k since then.

Anyway, hope this helps.

They usually say something along the lines of, "50 off for established hobbyists only, for writing a review." Be careful though, because you are going to get a shit load of lowballers with zero credibility trying to get cheap ass. Make sure you can look his handle up and see his past review history. Oh, and don't give the discount on the first meeting either or he can just not do shit after. It is off the second meeting.

Well if you are starting out you can use the Ad Boards in Discussion Boards to promote yourself.  In the Ad you can probally ask them to review you if they enjoyed the time.  I mean that is what the Ads are for.  

You should probally see if other providers can help give you some answers too.

Anyone can join this site and give you a review.  You just need to give them your TER # and ask them to review you if you think they liked you and/or had fun.  Hopefully they will be cool and give you a review.

I know its late but thank you all for the ideas, suggestions and insight!! Its very much appreciated