I am 56 years old, should I feel wired about seeing 25ish year old providers?  What is common?

A 30 year age disparity IS common, and you'll find 60+, 70+ men pursuing that same 20-something provider. There are plenty of middle-aged guys in this game who are here to sleep with that young hottie they couldn't get when they were her age, and those young ladies are happy to make the trade.  

Did mean weird. Issue I have is this bathe providers in the area are 18-25. The older women advertise on the body rub section, costs the same but you never really know what you are going to get to finish things up- if you get what I am saying.

Are you saying that the young providers in your area offer a more consistent level of service, generally, as compared to the older ladies you've seen? My advice is to take full advantage of the reviews offered on TER to help you parse between the good and bad providers in your area. I definitely wouldn't draw any correlation between age and quality.

Truth be told, I rarely go much older than twenty five, well actually early thirties is about my upper limit even in the civvie world.

As for not knowing what you are getting, that's what TER is for, buy yourself a VIP membership and you will know EXACTLY what you are going to get for your money.

As for age, go with what makes you happy. I am a pig who likes them young, but that's just me, there are many, actually the vast majority of the guys here who like them a bit more "age appropriate" there is no right or wrong answer to that question. I've been seeing a 25 year old now since she was 18, met her as a provider and things have grown from then over the years, if you ever saw us together, despite the age difference you'd think we've been married for years. The only "looks" we get are the looks at her "still cute" ass, although I've been telling her lately that now that she is old enough to rent a car on her own that she is "too old for me" lol

As for me, I'm only as old as the gal I feel.

8o)

I'm 67 and I just saw a gal in her early 30's yesterday.  Rarely do I see anyone under 25 anymore, but if she has the menu and attracts me enough, why not?  They are doing this for the money, and they do not really care who it comes from.  Yeah, people outside the hobby might look down at us old farts having sex with a girl young enough to be our daughter, or 'gulp', granddaughter, but I DGAF what they think, and neither should any of you other guys doing this.  I'm here to have fun.

I like mature ladies. But I know some mature 25 year olds.  And I know some 40-something ladies who act like 15 year olds.  If I had to pick a favorite age, I'd say mid-30s to late-40s is my sweet spot, just because almost all the providers I know of that age act commensurate with their age... although they may look a lot younger!  But my next 3 scheduled dates are with a 25 year old, a 28 year old, and a 38 year old.  The 25 year old has a strong preference for older guys. We hit it off splendidly; she didn't seem to mind the age difference one little bit (maybe because I felt about 30 years younger when I was with her). After that, there's a 45 year old I've been meaning to see for a looong time.

I shouldn't talk.  

when you get to be my age, fucking women your own age is completely out of the question.

I'm also near 60 and I never even think about the age difference when I'm with a gal.  In addition, she gives me no reason to.  The older I get the more I realize that, in any profession, age is not an indication of performance and attitude.  

You can have something you can't have in real life.  

My best time so far is with someone above 40. When I was 44 I saw one not old enough to drink and she remains number 2 all time for me. If she is good at her job, you will be fine.

... Tobi Telford. She doesn't see anyone older than 55 years old. that's what her website info says.

just can't do it.  

There is something for everyone, all you have to do is seek out whoever turns you on.

...and the last girl I visited was just 25.  Here's what she emailed me the day after our session; "Men like you are the reason I can't imagine the day I have to quit ! You are beyond sweet and SUCH a gentleman! Thank you for everything, and I can't wait to see you again my dear"  My point is that some younger providers really like older guys, especially if you learn how to treat them right.

Just nowhere near as much of it. lol

I spent last night with a chica who's birthday is tomorrow, she'll be twenty. It's had me in a good mood all day. I know a lot of guys think the very young ones don't know how to show a guy a great time, but this one had me convinced I was her "novio" that is until she picked up the money I had left on the nightstand last night and waltzed out the door at about 8 this morning. I guess I should be happy, the ones in their mid twenties or over are likely to want to spend the day with me as well, and then what the hell would I do? lol

but please stop with the grandfather stuff. I can do the math, by Costa Rican standards where the chicas all seem to have bambinos by age fifteen, she is technically young enough to be me great granddaughter., Now that is a depressing thought. Well at least she is one of the smart ones and at the ripe old age of almost twenty, she has had the good sense not to get knocked up.

I feel more comfortable seeing Providers closer to my age i.e. (Mature) . However, when I'm at a strip club you won't find that possible. It's a younger girls world there. Usually the dancers are more interested in getting as many $$ from you as possible.