I was wondering, what is a recommended first time experience, incall or outcall?  i am wondering if there is a difference when considering your a newbie.

It gives her better control of the overall experience. You might overlook something that she would be sensitive to.

Also, it is nice seeing her for the first time dressed in a sexy outfit. With out-call, she will tend to wear something that won't make her stand out. She will change in your room, but you only get one chance to make a first impression.

I have been reading a lot of the posts by tokai and he gives great advice.

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