Newbie - FAQ

First session tomorrow. Feeling nervous.
FlamingDragon 1641 reads
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I'm not sure why I'm this nervous.  I know afterwards I'll ask myself: "Why was I this nervous, that was silly?"  You know, the provider isn't that far from me but I had a really hard time hearing what she is saying on my hobby phone.  It's a prepaid card that runs off the at&t network but it's hard to hear.  My primary phone is at&t and I know I would have a much better connection using my primary number?

Anyway was told to call tomorrow and be given address then.  She didn't ask for reference, but I told her the name of the store I worked at.  I forgot to give her the store's number though...  She'll probably ask tomorrow, or already googled the number and called.  (There's only two stores in the area).  I wasn't sure if I should do 30min or an hr.  But decided to do an hr because I know just chit chatting for sometime will take a lot of tension off.  Especially for the first visit.  

But I don't want to arrive being nervous or be tense ruining the session.  It's silly and just stupid but any suggestions on how to stop feeling nervous?  

Yeah I feel nervous, but more excited you know?

keystonekid 114 Reviews 356 reads
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like water, but not diuretics (coffee, colas, etc.) or alcohol.  

Be squeaky clean, arrive on time, and enjoy!

palomamontecarlo See my TER Reviews 412 reads
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Well reviewed, established and professional. I would say stay with your hobby phone because either way you were screened by employment and keep the number so in the future that can be use along with the reference. An hour is ideal in order to get acquainted with the lady. A nice gesture is to bring something to drink perhaps a bottle of wine, but maybe just one glass to take the tension off a bit, but it is best to ask if she will be ok with that and what kind she prefers. Don't forget we are regular girls and we act that way, maybe a bit more open minded. We love chivalry and respect. Your first meeting is always exciting as long as all the precautions are taken (which seems you have). Welcum to our world and enjoy your first rendezvous!

Kayden_love.lv See my TER Reviews 329 reads
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Awwww. I can't wait till my first review hope that lucky hobbiest is ready my website is officially up check it out every one I'm so excited

FlamingDragon 256 reads
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I deceided to see a provider that had a profile pic in new jersey.  Simple smile looks like a college student that lives nearby.  Had to be in new jersey anyway, but I think I'll stay with manhattan.  Mostly because I felt it might be suspicious for hotel staff to see our only cars there in the lot and both leaving relatively later.  I was excited but had trouble reaching the provider but drove in to jersey anyway because I wanted to avoid traffic later on.  I got in contact with her and learned the hotel lost her reservation.  basically pushing everything back.  it was okay but I was getting bored pretty fast waiting.

I also worked the graveyard shift and was tired as I have work  later on.  I admitted to her that I never hobbied before.  super nice and reminded me of certain equelites that I needed to do.  I feel that it takes awhile to mentally ease into hobbying.  she turned out to be a college student.  I wished I said more but I still need adjusting as a hobbyist.  I was thinking of things to talk about and end up forgetting them.  I'm usually a good conversationist but felt really off on that part.  

that hr was nothing.  I felt like it just started.  how does anyone book 15min?    I liked her but I wish I chit chatted better.  I felt I left a I'm not sure ehat to fo impression.  I think about the experience and it makes me smile.  so overall I enjoy it.  I think hobbying takes some time adjusting.  at least I know it does for me.  persobally hobbying is a huge jump for me.  

I got mad thirst yduring and after the session, so I have to remember to bring a drink. lol.

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