Newbie - FAQ

First off...
Chestnut2011 2167 reads
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Is it frown upon to have a few drinks, or smoking a doobie before meeting a provider?
Is it inappropriate to ask a provider to meet at a nearby pub for a couple drinks?
Thanks gents.

Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 875 reads
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I will share drinks, or a doob, with the lady once I get there, if she is cool with that.  Many ladies are cool with having a drink or two to break the ice, but as for 420, you will have to let them make the first move...

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 1793 reads
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it should not be expected to be off the clock time.  Many appreciate you bringing a bottle of wine, and many will offer you a drink.  I don't do alcohol with a date, it does not help with keeping it 'up'.

And previous posters are right, I'd be careful with the 420 offers.

Swim

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 3537 reads
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to a date, especially if she has mentioned in on her web site in her gift section.  CD is correct on the 420 issue.

MakenzieRae See my TER Reviews 1993 reads
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I never meet a client before hand for drinks...my time is money and just a waste.

#2 NEVER do drugs...Yes some will do it, but sorry I want to have a clear mind so that I am in total control of me and what is going on.

If you are on drugs or drunk, don't bother coming to see me as we will not have a good time.

Makenzie

rightonppl 29 Reviews 496 reads
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If a couple of shots is what it takes to make a loose woman out of her, I'm glad to be her enabler.

Aaaargh 1031 reads
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In the past I have had to send guys home for smelling like weed or/and alcohol, having bloody eyes and a difficulty forming intelligent sentences and yes, showing up WITH drugs at my incall location. I was scared and just wanted them out of there.
If you want to bring something, wine is a safest choice (champagne as a close second) and if she refuses, don't push it.
Also, if you are TOFTT hen definitely do not even talk about weed. Imagine if she is LE.  What's worse? Soliciting her for prostitution or for drugs? Or BOTH? That's a dangerous game.

baby_one_more_time 36 Reviews 638 reads
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....have a drink with a provider.  Whether it's someone new or an old friend, it helps break the ice and make things a bit more comfortable.

Before a session, though, I limit myself to one.  Shakespeare had it best when he wrote in "Macbeth" about alcohol: "it provokes the desire, but it takes away the performance."

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