It seems that a lot of providers require at least 1 ref at the first contact.
However, what if a newbie like me (even though I got the membership since 2011, but just met 2 girls by now) do have enough references, how should we proceed in this area.......
Seems like a dilemma:

1. You need  references to pass the verification of good providers.

2. You need to meet good providers in order to get good references.

Dont recommend me P411.....I think that's too much to pay.....

I wonder if you guys have any other great ideas.

Thanks a lot~

You mention you've met 2 girls. Could you use them as references? Ask them first of course.

Another alternative is RS2K which is great for the Chicago area. You will need to provide verification info, but that's part of the deal if you want to play safely in this Hobby.

Chiguy

Thank you for your advice, Chiguy.

The bad thing is that those two girls are out of this business. No way to contact.

I will look up RS2K. Hopefully, they are working well in Boston.

Best,
CNbigbig

P411 is not the only verification site available.  In addition to RS2K, there is also Date-Check.  However, I agree with the previous poster, if the membership fee is too much for your budget, how do you afford to hobby, and you should prob find another hobby that's less costly.

Swim

a small price to pay to hobby and find quality women and experience clean fun. Otherwise go see your $20 cracked drugged skanky pussy on the street. Fucking ridiculous.

Ask the specific provider what she needs in order to screen you.

But be prepared that this may come down to you providing a real name and some of your employment information.

RS2K is most prevalent in Chicago/IL area... many other areas, ladies are not members of this site, like they are with P411 and date-check. Currently, on the MA RS2K, there are only 3 listings, while in IL, there are over 60. Date-check is more widely accepted, if you are really against the cost of P411(most widely accepted).

Get verified thru p411. Costs too much? Find a cheaper hobby then....like free Internet porn...and be satisfied.

Otherwise get verified!!!

What would you rather pay...the 15 a month to P411, a site with an owner that has a 30 year track record, or pay that in blackmail to some nutjob who won't see you without your full name and employment? Just sayin. Seems like an obvious answer to me. This is not a cheap man's hobby, though some will say otherwise lol.

Just tired of guys bitching about money when they know they are going to pay for playing in a providers playground.