Okay, I got my first meeting this Sat with a provider. I think I chose a good one based on the reviews. I have a few questions since this is my first meeting with someone. I see that providers list their fee, but what is the customary tip most of you leave? I don't want to appear cheap. And do I bring my own condoms? I know these might sound like sillly questions to you pros, but I'm a newbie. Any other info would be great. I appreciate the advice. And do most of you do bbbj or consider it too risky
Full disclosure, I'm pretty new myself. Occasionally provider will have run out of condoms... I think that's more of a sign of being less professional, however. Generally speaking they should have them in stock. But you never know, and if it makes you feel a little more comfortable, go ahead and bring them just in case. From what I have read, tips are not necessary, but always appreciated. I think sometimes people tip when they are really happy with the experience and want to see the lady again.
tipping isn't necessary especially for indy's as I've heard the best tip is repeat business, for agency girls the SOP is a bit different since some of the donation goes back to her 'agency'. As for bringing your own condoms in this case I wouldn't bother since she's well reviewed. If you feel you want to go ahead, but you probably won't need them. Usually reserved for BP girls who I wouldn't recommend to a newbie. As CBJ or BBBJ it's up to you and your comfort level. I like it, but I know the risks and get tested regularly and have yet to get something. Don't worry about appearing cheap, from what girls tell me it's usually the guys who try to ask for discounts are the cheap ones. However a gift might not be a bad idea for your first encounter. Also you might want to let her know it's your first time. I know I didn't and regret it to this day as my experience might have been a lot different, and it was my actual first time with any woman.
to edit out her name and contact info from your post. I don't know if you are supposed to put that out there before the fact on the message board. However, she looks like a great choice.
I rarely tip at 300.00 an hour, I think that's enough. Sometimes I will bring a small gift, but not always. I AM cheap. You can bring condoms if you want, she should have them, but better safe than sorry. BBBJ all the way my man! If you are going to worry about risky behavior, don't hobby. LOL Seriously, the risk on bbbj is low and mostly her risk. Shower before your meeting and make sure your breath is fresh. Have fun
Read her website FAQ for information. In addition make sure she knows it's your first time. Relax, its just sex and let her give you an introductory tour of the sport.
their body doesn't like particular brands, and they can get sore or inflamed by them they KNOW their own condoms are fresh and have been stored properly (not for a year in a guy's wallet) they know they have not been tampered with in any way (here's where Mr. Fisher's suggestion comes in-- but men have been known to screw around with a condom with a straight pin, then reseal the box with superglue.) So let her provide the condom, lube and whatever else. She will expect to do that
Providers are expected to have what ever supplies she needs on hand. Yes, most providers do not like to use condoms brought by the client... but it's better to have a sealed 3 pack than risk a scam. (Note: Does not protect against all scams!)
Posted By: Tabu
for a number of reasons...
their body doesn't like particular brands, and they can get sore or inflamed by them
they KNOW their own condoms are fresh and have been stored properly (not for a year in a guy's wallet)
they know they have not been tampered with in any way (here's where Mr. Fisher's suggestion comes in-- but men have been known to screw around with a condom with a straight pin, then reseal the box with superglue.)
So let her provide the condom, lube and whatever else. She will expect to do that.
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