One is to join a screen service such as Date Check or Room Service 2000.  Many gals will accept those.

The other is to find newbie friendly gals.  They do exist.  You will have to be very generous with personal information, and be able to write to them in a very sincere yet brief letter explaning your circumstance.

Everyone was a newbie once and had to go through with this.

Guys.....every provider that I emailed or check out required 2 provider references.  If no one will see me, how am I supposed to even get my 1st reference for them to check my references?    Any suggestion anyone?  Please give valuable input only.  Thanks guys!

I would think about looking at preferred411.com or date-check.com both are verification sites you will have to provide info for this.But,once you have been verified you can look at both of those sites for newbie friendly providers in which ever city you are in or looking to visit.This makes it convenient for the ladies as well as the guys.Everyone has to start at the beginning gents and the providers it may be frustrating but if you go with the suggestions should help you out then go from there.Also,you could provide employment info but the lady might still request additional info depends on how much info you are comfortable with providing.
Hope you get everything worked out.

There are actually reviewed providers, who post on ads boards, who accept noobs, who use non reference verification, and who give references after you've seen them a couple times.

No need to approach them like a sad puppy who needs petting.

Just book, go (clean, polite & on time) and then ask for a reference.


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I just checked out Preferred411. They require a main line to my company in order to reach me. Great; I work in IT for a major bank in a role that has no contact with the public. There are probably a thousand "main lines" the company has, but none of them will get you to me. Colleagues have my direct number, or a corporate address book where they can look it up. If some random person calls, we aren't allowed to give out personal information, including someone's phone number.

This is going to take some time and patience to figure out...

I joined p411 while unemployed. Call them or use their contact us online chat. The person stayed online with me until I was fully on which took about 2 hours. First she gave me alternative documents I could use to get on then after I had found scanned and faxed them she reviewed them while I waited and later helped me get fully logged in. She even let me hold off on paying until after she reviewed my documents so I knew I would be accepted before paying. They are very good at working with you if your circumstances are unusual like you described.