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TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 518 reads
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Most don't carry papers just like most guys don't. If more b&m'ed about me having them then I'd keep them w/ be since I've got zip to hide, clean bill of health ....esp since I am a borderline hypochondriac and go do my doctor for the smallest things. I get asked often when was my last std check up or hiv test and I tell them w/o pause but though fs or back trips are covered I find when I ask in return let's just say they aren't nearly as current.

Newbie6662918 reads

Hi all...

 Another question: Does providers usually have documents to show disease free? If not, why this is not a commom practice?

 Thanks in advance.

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swimtrekr1978 reads

That's why you use protection.  If you are waiting for documentation, you might as well bail out now, it ain't gonna happen, friend.

Good luck, I think you're gonna need it.

Swim

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ahavah653 reads

I actually think this would be a good idea.  But I don't want to be the only fucker doing it.  LOL!

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MattClark693 reads

Purportedly, it's the law in Mexico that providers have up-to-date health documentation.  So if you live in the southwest U.S., maybe you should do your hobbying over the border.  (Caveat: I'm not sure I would believe documentation I got from a provider in Mexico.)

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LiannaGerrit783 reads

There are a few issues in doing this sort of thing currently that I see..

One is way that the majority is doing business in the area at this time.In other words it is not common practice to do so ,So what's wrong with that ,right ? OK humour me , so everyone is currently not doing this . If one person is then the first question that pops into my mind is, why? Was she accused of having something by a sabotaging person? Did she have something and is proving it is currently cleared up? Is she suggesting that she is clean and no there is no need for a condom? Will the guy take that as an implied If your clean too you don't need one? What else changes when this dynamic changes in the perceived risk of playing.

Couple that with the fact that You/We could clearly have a clear test today and tomorrow get something show you your/my results on Friday not knowing You/I am in fact Not at all clean .It is really sort of a false sense of security.

Fact is that If everyone were doing it most of these issues would not be so intense and would drop off as time went on, but it would then be considered common place .Until the time that that might happen you stand out as a provider or hobby guy by doing things out of cue and what is commonly accepted as the norm.

The entire community is very chatty and some quite pessimistic I think you will find.Doing this would in fact make rumours fly in NY for sure idk about the rest of the country.

I do think if it was common practice it would be an excellent idea .I think more people would be forced to be tested and more often and it could in fact make us as a community healthier on the whole but change takes a transition .It is a process and not an event ,A process I might add that has not yet even started ,Good luck ,Kendall Lynn

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Bostonguy57661 reads

No.  Among other reasons,she is not going to show you anything with her real name on it.

Are you bringing your test results?

The reality is simple.  The hobby has some risks. ALL sex with strangers has some risks. Do you ask for test results from women that you pick up in bars? Do you plan on having unprotected sex with a woman you just met? Safe sex practices are part of a provider's every day work regimen.  They take it a lot more seriously than most of the civvie women you will encounter.

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TrulyMsMocha519 reads

Most don't carry papers just like most guys don't. If more b&m'ed about me having them then I'd keep them w/ be since I've got zip to hide, clean bill of health ....esp since I am a borderline hypochondriac and go do my doctor for the smallest things. I get asked often when was my last std check up or hiv test and I tell them w/o pause but though fs or back trips are covered I find when I ask in return let's just say they aren't nearly as current.

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CaseySterling904 reads

Test results can take up to 2-4weeks to come back(for full blood tests) in those 2-4weeks she could have had sex with multiple more men and contracted something then, or possibly nothing at all. Not to mention insurance only covers this exspense AT THE MOST twice a year. Otherwise it's out of pocket...and by out of pocket I mean around $250 for a full workup...

STAY SAFE....wrap it before you tap it my friend!

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nahtynikkey699 reads

I have to disagree with that.. they should never take that long.. at the MOST, 3 days, but usually only 2... HIV tests can take up to a week. And it depends on what insurance you have, as I regularly go ever 3 mos, and anytime in between if there's ever a mishap (slipped or broken apparatus) and have never been charged out of pocket.

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ojwrue333497 reads

sorta new at this but how often should I have an STD test? I had one girl tell me she got tested every 90 days.. I felt better but still used a wrapper.. :D

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