Great advice earlier on NEVER giving out real name.  How do you ever get you foot in the hobby door without doing so?  And how do you ever get to see the less skanky providers?  It seems the classier providers always demand employment or some other verification with real name needed.  The idea of someone showing up at work and telling someone that my hobby isn't golf kinda freaks me out, based on the experiences of a gentleman who posted earlier.  Can P411 eliminate the need to give a provider such info?

They do require your personal information for verification, but that information is not given to providers.

If you don't want to see skanky providers then don't be skanky yourself. If you want to see classy providers then be classy and disclose the information that they require in order to schedule an appointment. Simple. I promise, no one is interested in outing you to your employer. No one cares; your coworkers are probably indulging in the hobby as well and she'll forget your name within 12 hours of the appointment.

Agreed, this is your best approach.

Except for ladies who still require provider references, and many of them do.

I agree but there is always the one in a thousand or ten thousand that is the exception.

Possibly by being a "less douche baggy trick" might help. Careful how to speak about hookers being a newbie or it will come back and bite you in the ass.

Date-Check is also another option.

Thanks for calling me out.  Poor choice of words on my part.

No one has ever asked for my last name, personally.

Being addresses or referenced with some manners

If they insist, which happens rarely, I go to the 2nd girl on my list as I never argue with a gal over her verification criteria.

I ask and get real names. I do that should something happen, I have someone the police can go after.  

In fact, I have stated here before, if I were hooking I would demand a real name for exactly the reason you state or at the very least, to make the guy think before he does something stupid in session.  

Keep in mind that that's only the case with ladies who will accept P411 as a sole screening tool. Some will still require additional info (full name, etc) regardless of your P411 status. I for one will not accept P411 alone, regardless of how many Okays a client has acquired. All I ask is that those who don't want to comply with my screening requirements move on to someone else.  

What's the difference if they are independent or an agency?  It's still a risk you take.  You won't get verified by using fake info, trust me I tried.