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LuckyMiss 981 reads
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If you don't want to see skanky providers then don't be skanky yourself. If you want to see classy providers then be classy and disclose the information that they require in order to schedule an appointment. Simple. I promise, no one is interested in outing you to your employer. No one cares; your coworkers are probably indulging in the hobby as well and she'll forget your name within 12 hours of the appointment.

noway303332027 reads

Great advice earlier on NEVER giving out real name.  How do you ever get you foot in the hobby door without doing so?  And how do you ever get to see the less skanky providers?  It seems the classier providers always demand employment or some other verification with real name needed.  The idea of someone showing up at work and telling someone that my hobby isn't golf kinda freaks me out, based on the experiences of a gentleman who posted earlier.  Can P411 eliminate the need to give a provider such info?

By the way, my name is John Smith, dang glad to meet ya sweetie:)

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Mutame1065 reads

They do require your personal information for verification, but that information is not given to providers.

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68firebird899 reads

Agreed, this is your best approach.

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FatVern792 reads

Except for ladies who still require provider references, and many of them do.

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Autumn Breeze793 reads

Date-Check is also another option.

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LuckyMiss982 reads

If you don't want to see skanky providers then don't be skanky yourself. If you want to see classy providers then be classy and disclose the information that they require in order to schedule an appointment. Simple. I promise, no one is interested in outing you to your employer. No one cares; your coworkers are probably indulging in the hobby as well and she'll forget your name within 12 hours of the appointment.

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noway30333753 reads

I agree but there is always the one in a thousand or ten thousand that is the exception.

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fingertight477 reads

What's the difference if they are independent or an agency?  It's still a risk you take.  You won't get verified by using fake info, trust me I tried.

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hbyist+truth=;(776 reads

Possibly by being a "less douche baggy trick" might help. Careful how to speak about hookers being a newbie or it will come back and bite you in the ass.

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noway30333656 reads

Thanks for calling me out.  Poor choice of words on my part.

In my limited experience, I notice the ladies that tend to be the ones I want to see tend to be more professional and want more screening, which I respect.  I am very thorough myself and was looking to minimize my risk.  I am doing my research, asking questions, and learning from good advice and from asking basic questions.

I apologize to the fine women on this board for the way I expressed myself.  I should have said I wanted to focus on the higher end women.  The ones who respond to our questions and read our posts are the ones that are generally the higher end women any discerning gentleman would want to meet.

 


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hbyist+truth=;(580 reads

Being addresses or referenced with some manners

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The_Lies_We_Tell693 reads

No one has ever asked for my last name, personally.

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JackDunphy638 reads

If they insist, which happens rarely, I go to the 2nd girl on my list as I never argue with a gal over her verification criteria.

A well known poster is lamenting this exact fact on the GD as I write this.

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hbyist+truth=;(748 reads

I ask and get real names. I do that should something happen, I have someone the police can go after.  

What do you suggest a hooker do if she does end up getting assaulted and only has a trick name to give the police and nothing else to properly identify him?  

Not asking any guy to do what he uncomfortable doing, I am asking this as you are one of the guys who is all for hooker safety.

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JackDunphy745 reads

In fact, I have stated here before, if I were hooking I would demand a real name for exactly the reason you state or at the very least, to make the guy think before he does something stupid in session.  

But like our boy Scoed found out, a hooker is abusing the confidence he placed in her by supplying his real name.

Many gals here have determined that it will either hurt biz to ask for a real name or they just aren't that worried or they don't due their full due diligence.

This is a case of conflicting interests HT. As a john, I want to lower my risk as much as I can and I draw the line with certain personal info but at the same time, when asked, I always tell a friend that hooks to get all the personal info she can on a dude.

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Tobi Telford706 reads

Keep in mind that that's only the case with ladies who will accept P411 as a sole screening tool. Some will still require additional info (full name, etc) regardless of your P411 status. I for one will not accept P411 alone, regardless of how many Okays a client has acquired. All I ask is that those who don't want to comply with my screening requirements move on to someone else.  

It's up to everyone (on both sides of the transaction) to determine what their individual comfort level is. It's very rare for a reputable lady to cause problems in a client's personal/professional life, just as it's very rare for an established client to harm a provider. Some are comfortable risking that fraction of a percentage, while some aren't.

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