I'm thinking of seeing an escort for the first time, but I am a little self conscious about my weight. I'm tall and board shouldered, but look like I am pregnant with twins with a gut hanging over.

I was thinking that I should drop 50 pounds before going through with anything, but I have been celibate for way too long and desire sex too strongly too wait too long.

The weight must be a turn-off for the provider, but should I worry about it? Does a well reviewed provider care? Should I care? Or should I just be as self confident as I can be? I will be nervous the way it is, being a first time visit.

Any thoughts?

Hello, first timer!

I've been with all sorts of guys -- big, small, wheelchair-bound, over seventy, etc. Honestly, what matters to me the most is a friendly attitude and enthusiasm. I think that most providers who provide because they enjoy it would feel the same

Lord knows my body isn't perfect. I don't fudge the pics on my sight because I want folks to see exactly who will be greeting them at the door. It's crucial to be honest. And it's what's underneath that counts. For me, anyway.

My advice to you when looking for a provider is to be up front about how you feel about your weight. If you get a negative reaction you will know she's not worth seeing.

Happy trails, sweetie.
ReBecca

You'll be fine if you're 50 lbs overweight.  Grab a nice honey and get a workout.  Then, reward yourself at every 5 pound loss, and a threesome when you hit the 50 pound mark.

You'll be a new man before you know it!!

As long as your weight does not interfere with personal grooming you should not have a problem.

To make sure that you do not book a session with provider who has issues with big gentlemen, you may want to mention that in your e mail.


Happy hobbying!

Lina

so you're a little over weight, so what. Show up with a good attitude, be respectful and looking to have a good time. that's really what we care about. Not about your physical appearance.

Just relax and have fun. i can understand being a little nervous but you're over worried for no reason

I second what Jenny said.  Just be respectful and nice. Madison

If providers only saw clients who were in good shape, they wouldn't have any business. As previous post indicate, be respectful, on time, well groomed and fresh (shower right before date or some in calls will provide you a shower). Show up with a good attitude and be prepared for a great time and you will be fine. Good luck

Thank you for all of the support shown. I am gaining confidence and have no problems being a nice guy. I am very gentle and very shy, so I have often struck out. However, I am determined to carry this thru.

Thanks again,

Tdost

I have mentioned being a bigger guy.  One provider wrote back and asked just how big I was.  That was enough to tell be werent' a good match.  The reviews give a great indication who are the sweethearts, and yes they really are.  You will be just amazed what fabulously nice ladies you will meet.  Just do your homework.  
Ps:  Southbeach diet will shrink that belly, and greatly reduce some serious health risks.  Sex gets better too.  Been there and done that, so now I'm happy to spread the word.  Library has the book.

Hey, I'm a big girl and I get plenty of clients.  Don't worry about it, sweetie.  I echo what the other girls said.  Be respectful and sweet and you can't go wrong.  No one's perfect and we all like sex, you're no different than anyone else.

You are the one paying for the service, as long as you are clean and well behaved than I don't see how your appearance matters at all. Your goal here isn't to impress the lady .. you just want to have a good time. So I say just go for it.

I'm in the same boat and I really appreciated reading the responses to your post.  On several occasions I have selected my top 2-3 ladies,  put aside the money and chickened out when it was time to make the call.  I'm not even sure I could enjoy let alone perform, my insecurities being so high.

I don't KNOW you...

But maybe you should do GFE... and get self esteem up and at it.  Don't sit there and wait/feel sorry... Do research 1st and go for it.  You may find, if provider does proper job, that it will motivate you to be whom you want to.  Either that, or be comfortable with self.  You are right in there with most guys so loosen up and go with the flow.  Respect and personality goes a long way for some of us gals.