Here is the deal should I call back? ask why? or just let it slide and ask for another time?  What if she doesn't pick up?  Does she think i am LE or something because she had agreed to come already but never showed up and didn't say anything.

Should I just move on or try and contact her for another date?

It happens all too often.  Move on, try someone else.  She's the one out the money.  Schedule an appointment with another girl, hopefully the new girl will be more reliable.  Good luck.

Being a newbie, you could have inadvertently said something or asked her a question that frightened her away.

Did you negotiate her donation?

Or she may have gotten a better offer and just wasn't professional enough to let you know or

She just may be a flaky druggie!

One may never know.

Agreed and don't let her pressure into another situation where she can do it again. Move on and fine another provider. Most well reviewed providers will not do this. Some do try and take advantage of a newbie thinking he will come back. It's your money and see who you want too!

Whether she is just a flake or he did something to spook her, at this point she is a write off.

Move on and never contact her again.  Period.

They are always looking over their shoulder.  It still was not right for her to pull a no show.  Things will definitely get better.  Just keep reading the forums and reviews and call a different gal.  It may not have been you at all but a newbie can scare a provider pretty easily.  Good luck and don't give up.

Was this a lady that you had set up an appointment with previously and she no-showed?

Was it a last minute call to a lady advertising locally?

In general, the rate of no-shows will be higher among gals that yo call at the last minute for out call.  Almost anything that sounds like a better offer-more time, less of a drive, a regular-will generally get you blown-off.

It's up to you if you want to try and re-schedule or not.  I wouldn't count on an explanation.  If she doesn't answer or call back then she is either embarrassed about blowing you off or you have somehow spooked her. Best to move on.

(All through texting) Made an appointment she accepted the time then she asked me for my address gave and she said the donation $/hr and reply ok. then she sms back and said she'll see me at that time then as you all said no show no call.

all wells guess back to the drawing board.

Heh, this happened to me recently as well.  I followed all her directions and when I showed up, no  answer and no response to texts.

I'll just chalk it up to bad luck, or some how I said something that spooked her like.  'I'm otw now, be there in about 45 mins, cya' lol

Who knows... just out 1 hr of my life so no big deal.

whether the provider was well-reviewed or you took a shot in the dark with a CL gal.

Sorry i did my research on here TER and found that she would suit my needs and that she was some what sometimes late. but she didnt show up nor called but all wells like everyone else said just move on so that's what i did.

Thanks for the great info and advice almost like a second secret family lol.

However i still want to see her some how but don't want to call to much and spook her still.

Thanks again and happy hoilday and New Year.

Find another girl! There are many hot ones here on TER!