As I discussed in a post earlier this summer, I'm a 19 year-old guy on a quest to see his first provider. Well, it's the middle of summer right now and yeah, you guessed it, i still haven't seen that first provider. I've contacted probably 10 women or so, and each one has lead to a dead end. I usually start my contact over email. This dead end usually comes after i give them my info, which includes my date of birth and lack of any provider references. Believe me, i wouldn't give them my date of birth if they didn't ask for it. I give them everything they want though, employment info included. I follow all the guidelines that i've picked up from this site including the discreteness. So... am i just wasting my time here?!? It amazes me how even though i'm respectful, honest, independent, and financially capable, these women are not willing to give me a chance. They don't even bother to email me back or call me back and explain anything. I have been trying independents, by the way, since i'm reluctant to try any agencies. Any advice right now would be highly appreciated, as I am still determined to see a provider. Is there something that i'm doing wrong or should i try something else that i haven't been doing? Thanks -

Interesting, though...I don't think I've *ever* been asked my date of birth, or employment info either.  I do get asked regularly for references however, so that may be where things are going off track.  I suspect that it's the 'under 21' aspect that's frightening ladies off.  You may have to just wait for your 'full majority'.  Perhaps it would be worthwhile to try registering with something like 'RoomService2000'.  If they accept you, I can't imagine most ladies would make trouble then.

I can remember starting off hobbying at about the same age.  It did raise a few eyebrows, and got comments like 'you seem young for this!'.  Of course, this was in New York City in the early 80s -- very different atmosphere from today.

Good Luck!

Never had the prob but maybe your youth is hurting you.  Have you tried a massage lady?  Perhaps you might try one and get  reference?  may be keep trying with the ladies in your area.  Getting 10 rejections does happen- sometimes to an old hand just looking for new ladies.  Keep up the momentum.

I can suggest some things that you can try if you still want to meet a provider.
    Many of the women get bothered by teens who are not much younger than you are, so some of the ten rejections may have thought that you were playing games with them.  
    What you should do just after you give your age is explain that you will bring a valid driver's license to your meeting with them to prove that you are in fact 19.  I do not think that there are any states that issue licenses that do not have picture ids.  Hopefully yours was not taken when you were 16.
    Did you have an age range for the providers that you contacted?  If so, the you may want to try providers who are toward the opposite end of that age range and have good reviews.  For example, if you tried providers in the 18-27 age bracket you may want to try some well reviewed ones who are in the 30-40+ bracket, depending upon your comfort level.

I am contacted alot by men your age and a bit older. I am one that prefers my men over 30. It is a personal perference.  I know alot of women in this area are the same or even want older.Read the websites of the ladys it usually says if they have age limits.Good Luck you seem very sweet.
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maybe you should try and contact them over the phone.  this way you can actually speak to them and get an idea of what they're saying and you get a chance to explain your situation to them.  you shouldn't really give up though.  being that your not even 21 yet, it's expected that you're going to get rejections.  if you really are determined, then eventually you'll find someone or maybe you'll just have to settle for someone you didn't want earlier in your searchings.  but contacting them over the phone is the best way to go about it.

well, i'm actually being a bit sarcastic. But i did at least have one lady who was nice enough to email me back with her explanation as to why she wouldn't see me. She said she normally does not see men under 21 but she'd be happy to see me after my 21'st birthday. Thanks Marla!

I don't discriminate against any age group.  I'm willing to see gentlemen as long as they are at least 18 years of age and can provide a valid photo ID to prove their "adult" status and avoid any legal complications.  I assume a lot of ladies receive contacts from men in your age range and most of them turn out to be kids playing a joke or just getting their kicks online.  The sad fact is, most men around your age do not yet have the financial means necessary to afford the services of a provider so most will assume you are not a serious client.  If you are willing to provide the same reference info or personal info for verification as an older gentleman, and can prove you are at least 18 years of age, I don't see a problem with entertaining young men your age.  I'd actually be looking forward to it - it's been some time since I've enjoyed the company of a 19 year old, and from what I remember, it was a LOT of fun!!!  I wish you much luck on your quest.  If I were in your area, I'd see you.  You seem like a very mature and honest 19 year old who is going about this in all the right ways. I hope you find someone willing to work with you.

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visiting Asian Massage Parlors (AMP).  (See link)  If you have VIP membership at TER, look in the VIP area and you'll be able to search for massage parlors in your area. I'm not so sure you would be able to get a reference from an AMP like you might be able to from an independent masseuse. I'm supposing Sully had an independent in mind rather than an AMP.

I just turned 22, and just graduated from college.  I have been surfin' this board for about a year now and always wanted to contact one.

But I always have this unknown fear about actually carrying out my desire to get with a provider.  I do admit that I am very sexually inexperienced.

Should I wait a few more years?

Cindy clearly states that age doesn't matter to her.

She has mostly good reviews at TER (Search for Cindy, and for city select Philadelphia)  She travels but I didn't notice Dallas listed.  Nonetheless, it never hurts to ask.

There are plenty of websites that DO NOT specify a minimum age requirement.  Why are you waving it at them?  Identify a lady you'd like to see and call her to set up an appointment.  If she doesn't ask your age, then assume it doesn't matter.  If she does ask, then tell her the truth.  The worst that happens is she has second thoughts when you show up for the session.  But, I can't imagine a lady turning away a paying customer who is respectful once he's standing in front of her, cash in hand.