Hi everybody,
I'm new on this business. I'v met a couple of providers in the last one year and all of them are wonderful. But the problem is on me !!! among all these providers, I just pop ONE time in ONE provider only but ended up in the way I don't like; I pop myself without her hand, she just tried to seduce me ( actually I thanked her a lot for that ) !!! and all other providers did our their best to make me pop but nothing came out! I remember a provider when I made her came 4 times after spending 2 hours and me nothing!  and she said like " I'v never met a guy like you before !!" ! I remember a provider when I turned off suddenly in the middle of session and she tried her best to wake my little johnny up but no chance, it is really frustrating !!
Now I'm very anxious about meeting a provider and my concern is only to cum easily. I know the problem is all about anxiety. I believe the provider play a good part to calm the client down before starting the session till he feel comfortable. my questions to you, have you ever happened to you like that? what can you do to solve it? to providers, have you ever met guys like me before?

BTW, I'm young and I'm sure it is not because of any pathological problem. as I said it is all about anxiety. sorry if my english is bad

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1. Repeat with the one(s) you're most attracted to/had the best time with. Your anxiety will dissipate as you get more comfortable with her.  

2. Hold off on masturbating for several days/weeks or however long it takes you to get so ragingly horny that a brush of the hand is all it takes to get you rock hard. Then go see her.

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The more you play the easier things will get. I cum more easily through a bbbj. Another thing that works for me is to have the provider rub the underside of the head of the penis that always works for me. Tell the provider to use her tongue a lot on the tip of your penis. It is all about the head of the penis.

ever had a "prostate massage"? AKA stick a finger in your ass?  I hear they'll do it to rip you off time (make you cum quicker) so might want to ask her to do that for you.  

Course if you don't wanna come quick, don't let one of 'em stick their finger in your ass. Pop like dynomite. (no, it ain't gay either).

...may help.

But whoever is giving you tips about providers doing things to rip you off has been seeing the wrong providers.

You need to research here. Find a well reviewed lady (6 to 10 reviews by mostly reviewers with 10 or more reviews). Read the details of the review (general & juicy). Well reviewed ladies aren't likely to do any thing to rip you off.

Pay for the VIP if you don't have it. It's worth the $30 a month. I answered your questions in the post several threads above.

I'v tried Viagra twice before but it doesn't help to cum, it just make you hard all the time

Thank you all for your replies.  

 I tried Viagra twice before but it doesn't help. it just make you hard all the time.

to Coktail-party, I like your tips which seem practical for me. I thought about it before. I like one girl she made me comfortable in the session and she seem expert and I'm thinking to meet her again but the problem she has gone forever. she might left US.  

to hiddenhills, about FM, maybe a good idea because I feel like I'm not sensitive that much ehn I put the cover on. we will how it go.

to wheelchairman, you know what? nothing easy for me. the easiest thing to cum is musturbation. I think this because of watching porn.  

to need help here, yes I tried before. It is not that good.  

to xyz23, I have a vip membership and I would not meet any girl without checking her reviews. BTW I'm into eastern european girls. they are lovely and have sexy accent but it doesn't mean I woudn't try any other providers. for my experiences I like a girl with a lot of DFK is a major turn on for me. I feel like the touching and kissing are very important before and during the act.

...does have that effect on some.

...directed to need_help_here the poster above. He was way off in his remarks.

It is good that you have the VIP. See my reply above about the Viagra possibly causing a problem cumming.