I found a well reviewed provider I like, but phone does not pick up and no response to texts. Her cityvibe site says “get screened” then call, but there’s no reference to P411 or how to get screened. How do I connect?
Second question is donation amount, find a lot of providers that say $250-$260 per hour, but is that just where it begins? After I get there is it going to be much higher if I want all services advertised?

check that provider in question has p411, TER, enough reviews, social media & is actually active not just an account that last post was 6 months ago.  
google the phone number, email, name and see what you can find.

If they don’t, MOVE ON. If they have ter reviews, read the juicy details and you’ll know the services offered.  Of course you have to be a vip memeber to access the juicy details. And it’s well  worthwhile to pay for VIP.

If not, then that shouldn't be  problem.

Thanks for the input.

If you are unable to get an answer via phone or text, do NOT blow her phone up or you most likely will NEVER hear from here. I do have one suggestion that may work. If she is reviewed on TER she will have at least "limited VIP" here that will allow here to send and receive PM's. I would try sending her a final message via PM stating "I don't mean to be a pest, but I have been unable to reach you through other methods and I'd really like to see you" or some such message conveying the same thoughts.

You are only looking for a date for a fixed period of time... this isn't Match . com  I'm not sayng to forget her, but it's time to get perspective.  I suggest scheduling a date with someone who's available.  Newbie friendly.  Besides, Newbies tend to make mistakes or things that could be done better... best to do so with Ms Good Enough, not Ms First Choice.    After you have a few successful dates, circle back & try again.    

Well, I finally got a disappointing text response. She asked for screening info which included my age and other providers I had seen, this is my first time and I’m 66, so I may have struck out on both counts. Really had my mouth watering for this one, but will have to move on.
Thanks for your responses.

Most providers would rather see a guy who is 66 than a guy who is 26.

Age doesn't matter dude. On the contrary, I've looked at plenty of provider websites and many of the experienced ones won't see guys that are under 30 years old because of their immature behavior. If you can get it up, and you can pay, than you can get yourself a young girl who'll let you have some fun with her. There's a good chance she just wants to make sure you aren't some 20-something that's going to cause trouble for her, that's all.

If you find yourself fixating on a provider that you must have ... that's a red flag about your emotional state.  We all have preferences but if they become obsessive it means we're going to start making bad decisions and coming off as needy or stalkerish -- without realizing it.

Dude, P-411 is a must do! That and TER is all you`ll need. Search for "Newbie Friendly" girls. You don`t need to see the girl of your dreams the first couple of times. Consider this a "Training Camp" for now until you get your sea legs under you. It`s queasy the first couple of times but then it gets REAL EASY.  I went thru this exact experience a year ago and now I`m 180* from there and  lovin' it. The attitude adjustment you will experience is a true natural high like no other.
After a few dates your self confidence will soar and  will carry over into real life. What you will learn in the hobby is amazing. You'll scratch you head wondering why you didn`t do this sooner!
Seeing seniors is to them preferable to 20/30 yr old millennial brats who don`t have their shit together like we do. Being a senior is a plus, trust me.