New to this, and have a question... I have a fantasy/dream date scenario that I would like to play out with a provider.  Is it proper to mention/discuss this with the provider prior to our appointment?  I want to let them know what I'm interested in beforehand, but don't want to overstep my bounds.  Let me know!!! Thanks!!!

Once you have done research to allow you to conclude that she is legitimate then you can ask your question in a civilized way.  It is best to focus your research to providers who offer role play, but you can also ask ones that do not explicitly offer such a service.

and make your dreams cum true if they can, and they'll tell you if they can't and many will even suggest someone else.

DEFINITELY!!! I have had some of the best times after I just opened up a little ( No pun intended LOL ) to a provider. They can be great at feeding into your fantasy...

But, for someone to send the first email without any type of screening info, and is asking about "role playing" upfront, will cause me, and many other providers to put the email in the trash bin.