the provider checks her email and responds within a day or so.

Some providers don't seem to check their email but once a week, while others seem to be sitting in front of the computer 24/7.

The problem with making and getting phone calls is that you never know who is going to be around and can hear you; while email is a lot more secure and discreet.

Even after all this time, I like to build the suspense of not knowing the sound of her voice until the last possible minute.  Plus, in my environment, it's more private than voice communications.

As an aside, I had lunch with a provider friend the other day, and she was frenzied by the frequency of calls she'd been getting to the point of considering removing her number from her website.

I'm a spur of the moment kind of guy.  So when I felt the urge, I was more likely to start placing calls to see who is available.

Now after experiencing a lot of average, some sub-average, and some fantastic, I am more likely to plan ahead and email.

The more contact avenues you make available, the more contacts you can receive.  But always make sure that you do enough screening to be comfortable.

jazz32

I usually prefer initial contact to be by email.  If my email is not answered in a day or two, I will call and leave a message one time.  If I still do not get a reply, I move on.  If a lady does not have email, I will call to set an appointment.  But, that is not my first choice.

Actually, I find text messaging via a pre-paid anonymous cell to be best ..not tracable, yet also has advantages of email in that you can exchange communications and not both have to be free at the same time; I also like using the private message services of internet sites such as this

... as I do not prefer giving out personal info, even my cut out phone, until I have some inital contact first. But I admit to being much more of a planner who contacts providers days and even weeks ahead...

A few weeks ahead (if possible) via e-mail from my home computer.  A follow-up phone call is sometimes requested as part of the screening process.  If I don't hear from the lady within 48 hours and I have a phone number, I may call if I think there is enough time to work out the details.  Some ladies do prefer phone contact.  You have to read their web site.

I prefer email for an initial contact.  That allows the provider to reply when she has time.  Also, I tend to get nervous on the phone the first time with a  provider so I'd like to start with emails and then talk on the phone a bit.

Runningman

In general I prefer the first contact to be by email.

However if you are trying to make a date for the same day or the next day I would strongly recommend following up with a phone call as I do not sit 24/7 in front of my computer in case I get an email!  LOL

I sometimes get a email asking for a same day date, which I was available for, but checked my email too late

If you call for same day or next day dates saying you sent an email, generally the lady will respect your effort.  Of course last minute dates are always subject to availability and are thus a roll of the dice!  If you can make plans in advance, so much the better.  

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

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We have heard a lot about the special chemistry that happens from time to time between the provider and her hobbiest.  

It has been my experience that I can get a much better read about the "potential" of such a connection through phone contact than through email contact.  JMHO