I love visiting Boston,  and am trying to make it out there at least once a month,  but where do you find time to travel to another city for a long weekend and not raise suspicion or eyebrows in your personal life?

Obviously, ladies who travel a lot either don't have a personal life that precludes them from traveling, or it is worked into their back story (they travel for work).

Simple, not every one needs to know every thing. If you MUST tell them, there's nothing wrong with saying you're going somewhere for fun, an interview, work, whatever. I travel all month, and those who aren't aware of the real reason why don't know about 90% of it, let alone where I'm going or for how long or why.

My parents, friends, etc. have no clue what I do, so you should already have a cover job that would take care of any questions. Since I have worked for many firms that required travel in the past, it is nothing for me to pretend, I still work for them on a per contract basis. Pharmaceutical Sales is about the best cover ever, and it's actually a great income!

just say you're on a consulting job. Change your linkedin and facebook to reflect that.

Dear Ms. Rayne:
Perhaps your new cover is that you work for a pharmaceutical firm in conjunction with the FDA, as a consultant for new drugs that need a clinical trial. Considering the issues you come across within the hobby, you could say that you are analyzing the phenomena and side effect that come with the new drugs.