saving up for my first encounter. Would I be better off saving for a VIP with a drop dead looking lady or maybe get two chances with other ladies. All with good reviews

I'd go for 2.

Swim

There is no easy answer to your question. You are basically asking if it’s better to see one lady at $500 (who you believe has a great body/face) or two ladies (of average physical stature) at $250 a piece.

Let me start by saying that if you think your session with the $500 provider will be better than a session with either of the other two less expensive ladies you are sadly mistaken. Experienced hobbyists will tell you that they have all had wonderful, over the top sessions with average looking women (at discounted prices)and horrendous, boring, mechanical sessions with gorgeous ladies (at high prices). Conversely the reverse is true as well where the "hot" provider actually delivered an unbelievable GFE session and the average looking ladies failed to deliver. No rules. Looks have nothing to do with the session; its all about the chemistry you and the provider are able to develop together.

If all the reviews are equal, for your first hobbying experience, I would go with the lady you want to see most. If it’s the $500 dollar lady, then save up and see her. You want to be as excited as possible about an initial first visit with a provider. Don’t just settle for seeing both $250 ladies because you want to get laid twice.    

but you will find the $500.00 provider with good reviews just as well as a lower price provider.  When you are talking about spending time with someone, making a connection, and creating a memory, however, the price (within reason) shouldn't matter.  

If you are at a point where you have to worry about where you are putting a few hundred dollars, I am not going to say to stay away from this expensive hobby, but you will do much better to research your ass off so that the experiences you do have are worth it.

A 90 minute session is very different from a 60 minute session. In a 90 minute session you have a chance to chat, and usually, two cups. In a sixty minute session, you literally go through the motions. You get a lot done, but it's different.

Everyone's taste is different and it's a hard thing to answer for yourself without having gone through the experience. For me, I would like the idea of going for 90 minutes and taking the pressure off.

And, no, I don't think you need a VIP. A regular provider with high scores will be fantastic enough. There are many who travel with the escort services for $300-$400 per hour.

Others have given you great advice that in the hobby you should not assume ($500 = 2 x $250).  I'm on a budget myself.  Thus far I have set a rule for myself that I know many other hobbyists follow as well:  decide on a price point I will not go over and move on if a provider I am interested in charges a rate $1 higher.

For me, that price point is $300.  This has not stopped me from enjoying the time and services of an amazing lady about once a month.

I have been tempted to break that rule and probably will, but probably only for a session over 1 hour.

That is why my minimum is 90 minutes.  Whem I started I offered an hour appt.  What I found was that by the time we had exchanged pleasantries, some kissing on the couch and the first cup was served... gents were hoping for a second serving and time was up.  Plus, being a newbie, there will be some "first time jitters" and a longer session allows you to feel comfortable and not rushed.

Depends on your location.  $$$ will not buy much in a large city like NYC, Miami, LA, etc.  However, $$.5 will get you a lot in Indianapolis, Kansas City, etc.  

As Sin stated, as a newbie, a 90-minute appointment might be best for your first.  Some guys have the jitters and Mr. Happy responds slowly at first.

My decisions are based on performance over looks.  Don't get me wrong, she has to be attractive; but, I'll take the lady with the higher performance over the 10 in looks.

Keystone Is correct.

In every possible way.

I am pretty much a newbee with about a year of hobbying.  I was very fortunate to get with a moderate priced provider and have spent 90% on my efforts with her.  I have been disappointed & ripped of by some others.  
The most important thing is to check here or on Escorts(dot)com, or both.  A girl with no reviews or mixed reviews is not worth my hard earned money.  Let someone else take the risk.  
Don't be a GDCB (God D*mn Cheap B*stard).  By this I mean book enough time.  Many girls will not allow you to add time if you need it.  I would say an hour minimum (my favorite girl I have 1.5 hour).
A girl with only one fab picture is suspect (in my book) for a fake.  Especially if it's not a face shot).  If multiple pictures, compare them...  Same girl?  WE get our hopes all up, and are not prepared to walk...  but we should.    

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