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Here's your answer to VIP:

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Most questions you have have been asked and answered on this board.  You just have to search for them.

I don't know how to post an add as a provider or get VIP

READ THE SELF HELP CENTER!!!!!  BPS gave you a good link which will answer your questions, but it's a good idea to read the whole thing.  It may save you from asking some questions, but if you still have questions after reading, this is the place to ask.