I have a lot of fears about my first encounter including my name and face in the local paper for soliciting an undercover cop, but my real fear is this.  I'm very concerned w/ disease.  I've decided that I don't want intercourse, but I do want a bbbj.  What are the disease risk with the bbbj?  I don't see the point in a bj w/ a condom.  Just can't imagine any kind of pleasure with that.  Any constructive advise here would be greatly appreciated!!!!

thanks,

brad

Clicking on the TER Instruction Manual would open up a world of information for you.  But here's a link regarding the STD question.

Do not worry so much Brad. Your concerns are not uncommon at all. Do you homework. Find a provider who is a BBBJ fan and just go from there.
Read the reviews and not just the begining chart. Sometimes the reviews will reveal that someone is not a BBBJ provider. So do your homework. take a good shower and go vist that special provider you have found who will sink your boy deep in her throat. Enjoy man.

and following the advice already given, and please don't get mad at this comment, but maybe you are still too apprehensive to take the plunge, and should reapply yourself to finding a civie GF.  I do agree with you about the BBBJ, that is one of my deal-breakers.  No BBBJ, no date.  BTW, the other one is no kissing.  To me, those are two things which will cause me to not include a provider on my list of ones to see.

But as was said above, do your homework and research the ladies. If you have done the research and followed the lady's screening requirements, the risks are minimal.  Remember, this is her livelihood, so she is not going to do anything to jeopardize that.  If you do not already have a VIP membership, get one, it's well worth it.  Without it, you don't get the juicy details, which are very important in the decision-making process.

Good luck, and happy hobbying.
Swim

PS, feel free to pm me if you have questions not already answered.

Statistically, you are more likely to catch something from a BBBJ than from intercourse with a condom.

"Statistically, you are more likely to catch something from a BBBJ than from intercourse with a condom. "

Do you know any of the stats on this?  How much more likely you are to catch something with a BBBJ?  Or, how much safer covered intercourse is?

Actually, Swimtrek is probably right, after reading the possible risks with the bbbj I don't know that I am ready to take the plunge.  I am married, and the wife pretty much refuses to do oral and the sex has become few and far between.  I was just looking for an outlet for some oral sex, and I just can't imagine a cbj to be any kind of fun.  I enjoy oral more than intercourse which is why I was specifically interested in the bbbj.  Not really sure I'd get much out of covered intercourse.  I'm sure there are a ton of other guys out there in my situation.  Please don't bother telling me to get a divorce as that is not really an option for me

brad

Oral sex with a condom and a skilled provider can be very good indeed..........