They will terminate any contact.  The best way to find out what services a girl provides is to read her reviews.  If she doesn't have any, move on.  Most of us do it this way and, in my experience, there has never been any confusion between what I expected and what was offered.   But all that took place after I got to her incall room or apt.  Clothing requests, however, can be addressed via email once you have set the date.

Abbreviations like BBBJ and DATY are no more discreet than their spelled-out equivalents. Even GFE is widely agreed to mean a set of specific illegal acts. In short, any such terms that are understood by a provider will also be understood by LE, etc., and thus considered too graphic. Clothing requests, however, shouldn't be a problem as long as they are kept discreet.