...other providers who do not require your real name.  Write some reviews or get whitelisted; participate in your local discussion board.  Then you should have enough verification for most providers.

I am somewhat inexperienced here.  I contacted a provider via email asking what verification do you use and about an opening for a date.  She responded back that for verification,  I just need to know your real name and the type of business you are in to begin. If something doesnt match, I'll ask more.

Before contacting her, I read her reviews her on TER.  She has 3 great reviews, and a very nice website, through which I contacted her.

Does this sound ok?

Thanks!

So I assume both of you are fairly new to the hobby.  I'd be wary.  The type of business you are in is worthless to her without knowing who you work for.  So basically all she knows about you is your real name.  I'm not sure I understand what she means by 'if something doesn't match'.  What is she matching is my question.  She would have to google your name and might find out more than you want her to know.  IMHO, you are better using one or both of your reviewed ladies as a reference and/or joining a verification site.

Swim

you have multiple references from well known reputable ladies that you have seen recently and you let her know before hand that you are using an alias.

Some providers do check Drivers License and if your name doesn't match your ID that could result in the appt ending before it even began.

Thanks for the responses.  The 3 reviews she has are from clients who have given alot of in depth reviews for other providers, would that make any differences?

Yes, reviews from established reviewers is a good thing. That helps you establish her credentials.
Getting references from the providers you have seen as a previous poster said is good advice.

This can be avoided by joining a screening service like P411 or Date-Check.

Thanks for all the info!