Hi,

I travel to St. Louis on a weekly basis, and would like to get a regular thing going.  However, I keep running into the question, "Can you be verified?"  So - for those gals who only do incall (outcall is not a problem, as I stay at a hotel every week), how do I prove that I am not LE?

Thanks, Joe

...there are others. Date Check & RoomService2000 (RS2K). Check to see which is more prevalent in St. Louis. You may have noticed these mentioned somewhere in the provider's ad or on her web site. They screen you and then serve as your verification/reference. Most here recommend P411 (preferred 411).

Do a seach here for this topic. There are many discussions about it. I believe there is a thread about it just a few threads down the page now.

Also check out the Self-Help Center, upper right under the red & white life preserver. Lots of info there that you will find helpful.

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for you, but they need to have verification themselves that they are indeed true providers as well as P411. My #1 source that I trust. They are the best site out there and the only site I use honestly. They are awesome. Any gentleman who is a member of P411 gets first dibs with me any day of the week. Thank you P411.

guys and gals.  Gina and her staff at P411 will work with you to get you verified w/o provider refs.  It's better to give up some personal info to one site than to a bunch of providers until you can get some provider refs.

If you want to give info the provider, she may want to know where you work in addition to your real name.  She can call your work, ask for you with some innocuous excuse, like reminding you of a doctor's appt, and when the call is switched to your extension, she will most likely hang up.  She now knows you work there and are most likely not uncle LEO.

Swi

A very helpful post.

Thank you.

What worked for me...

Find a girl in your area, or a couple of town over, that you like. Email her that you are a newbie, and all you are asking for is a chance to buy her drinks, at a place of her choosing for a start. For which, you are happy to pay her her hourly going rate. Then assuming it goes well...you don't keep gazing below her neck, or spill drinks all over her, perhaps the conversation turns to "would you like to see me"? Then when the deed is done, tip her well, ask if she would serve as a reference for you....then boldly go, where most men have gone, since the dawn of time. It also helps, at this time to join p411 or any other site of your choice

Good luck