I have contact with this woman on an online dating service.We haven't met yet but when we do she wants to have covered sex and is really interested in me DATY on her.Would you guys risk this ? She seems to be a swinger.

I don't decide anything before meeting someone.

Either I want to or I don't.

If the former, then it's your call.  If you are not comfortable with it, then don't.

If the latter, then it should be by mutual choice, the same advice applies.

Any gal, whether pro or not, should know that she should be clean and fresh before a date, as should the guy.

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I met her in person and things were already underway, the risks in DATY are pretty small.. .as long as the presentation is good, why not if it will make her experience better?

What is the "risk" you are worried about?  Is it STDs, or hygiene, or something else?

Go down and sniff.  If it feels good n smells nice,  go to town, it's fun to help someone out.

no different than civie dating except the final outcome is known.

STD's. I'm sure if she's offering this to me she's probably offering it to as Many tom , Dick , and Harry's that she can on match.com.
She also prefers well endowed men.

Geez man, you're making this way too complicated.  If it's that scary, take a pass.

Reading your posts, it seems like you're fishing at the bottom of the pond.  That's cool, but there's more slime at the bottom.  You have a few choices, but advice isn't going to pick one for you.

Give me an email address and I'll send her pussy pics.Then see if YOU would dive on that , lol.
I've seen a fair amount of kittys but never one like this , lol.

If she's all that, just do it.  You've spent more time worrying than you need to...