I know that this is probably a silly question - which is why I'm posting it on the newby board.  I would be curious to know if there is some mechanism for Providers to rate Hobbyists.  I am a little bit familiar with the TER White List and Preferred411 "Okay", but just how detailed is this?  I would think that selective/high end Providers would want to know how physically attractive/unattractive their potential clients are, whether they are skilled lovers, whether they practice good hygiene, etc.  Do these topics come up when you screen new clients via Provider Referrals?
   
Providers - would you be willing to share some insight on this?  Apologies in advance for my naivete but I am new to this and quite curious regarding "how the other half lives".  Thanks.

Clean and have cash! They tell each other any details when they verify you

With TER and P411, you are either on the list or you are not....you either get an OK or you dont.  Attractiveness and intimate details rank very low in the type of info that interest us because for one its subjective, and for two has little to do with whether or not we will accept a date.

The most important, and what getting whitelisted / OK'd means, is that a guy is safe amd that he's respectful (and good hygiene falls under respect)

But definitely, we are not trading notes critiquing anyones looks or what is done in our private time.  That is far more important to our dates of us, than it is for us of them  As long as a guy is a great date, even when getting a reference, that sums up what a lady will say...that he was a great date.  Thats all we need to know.

Every so often, if I know who the lady is Im giving the reference to, and in return, additional info may be shared, like..he loves red so if you wear something in red he will love that...or he doesnt drink at all, if you offer something make it water or soda. Etc...

Thanks - like most things in life I guess that the fantasy is better than the reality.

Great insight.

Thanks Nicole..