because I rarely if ever cum in a condom. The first 20 years or so of my sex life I did not use them. My gnarly old crank does not like them - a tight one will kill my erection pretty quick. And even in a Magnum thin I just don't "feel" enough to cum. So a BBBJ is about the only thing that does it for me other than HJ, and I can do that myself '

I would see the provider who offers bbbj. No, I never think about them with other guys. I see high quality ladies who know how to clean up between sessions

for me, bbbj is part of the gfe package i enjoy. its a deal breaker, definitely. i never think of the other guys before me while kissing or daty, it would damper my experience. i stay in the moment and enjoy the whole experience.

In the past couple years I have had over sixty appointments.  Of those, I have only seen one lady who did not offer BBBJ and I saw her because I was so impressed by what I thought was her incredible beauty (she was even more beautiful when I saw her).  Usually a CBJ is a deal breaker for me but I did make this one exception.  

There are just too many outstanding ladies out there who do offer it for me to pick someone who doesn't as that is a very important part of the experience for me.  

I also have come to realize that a lot of ladies add to their menu items the longer they are in business.

I would see either one as BBBJ is not a big deal to me..sometimes I do not even want a BJ.

The BBBJ is my favorite part of the session, in terms of the activities.  I also love DATY, but to answer your question, I would definitely choose the provider who does bbbj.