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Bravado and "EGO"/Small man's disease
samberg 2 Reviews 3101 reads
posted
1 / 11

Im pretty new to the hobby and i wanted to know how many pops to expect from a provider in a regular situation.

Carrie_of_London See my TER Reviews 1835 reads
posted
2 / 11

You can't generalise at all about this.  Some providers will be one pop only, many others will be as many as you are capable of.

Your best bet is to see ladies with reviews and you should be able to find out from reading the reviews if they allow mulitiple pops.

buckeye-kev 15 Reviews 1704 reads
posted
3 / 11

Like location ( some cities have different standards than others - at least one I know about ), type of provider like GFE vs NON, and overriding that is individual profile.  

Unfortunately, even reviews/profiles are no gurantee as some providers really do vary their "offerings" from client to client based on actractiveness and chemistry and cleanliness(this one I don't see anyone having any qualms about).

I recently saw a provider who had given only one to all the prior reviewers, but seemed to have no reservations offering me a 2nd - but I had seen her before from another agency and had showed her some kindnesses over and above on our first encounter so that undoubtedly played into it.

CBJ vs BBBJ is also something that varies a lot with some providers.  It can be a tad disappointing or mystifying when you are the one she changes it on - "makes some wander if she thinks you look like quase moto(sp) or something" LOL, but it is a reality!

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 1341 reads
posted
4 / 11

Don't expect more than one pop from lower end, lower priced gals as they are generally one and done. On the other hand, a well reviewed GFE lady should be good for what ever you can manage in the amount of time you have booked.
If you are determined to get MSOG please remember to be considerate of the lady. These gals are not machines. They get tired and sore when guys start to pound away relentlessly. Trust me you will have a much better time no matter how many pops you get if you treat the lady like a human being and not a blow-up doll.

mapking33 4 Reviews 1893 reads
posted
5 / 11

just like when you buy an expensive item you must do your research. check out the reviews of the girl you like and you will get your answer.but you have to treat her like you want to be treated and watch how smooth things go.

buckeye-kev 15 Reviews 1184 reads
posted
6 / 11

B57,
I agree wholeheartedly that treating your provider with the utmost respect and kindness are major factors in how you get treated back.  I just find that a number of ladies vary their menu regardless ( Pretty Woman syndrome as some like to call it ).  I wish we could trust the reviews and profiles ( they don't create them here though so some guys egos/fantasy-world-creations have them claiming they got services they didn't! ).  

I've run into several situations where gals have had guys flat lie about what they offer/did.  But other examples where the 10 before got BBBJ and then the next guy was denied it.  Now since it wasn't me it could have been a hygiene issue ( for which even condoms would not be enough IMO ).  But it may not have been either.  

Many call this the "YMMV" thing but I ABSOLUTELY LOATHE that term as it is used as a scam and cop-out - invented by advertisers to LIE/FALSE ADVERTISE without repurcussion.  Used often to not be accountable for something - even review content!  I don't feel false advertising in the hobby is justified!

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 1120 reads
posted
7 / 11

Reality: YMMV exists weather we like it or not. It exists precisely because we are all human-both providers and clients. As far as lies in reviews being false advertising-I think this is what you are saying-it's not really advertising, it's a review.  There is a huge difference. Providers have no more control over what reviewers write about them than musicians, actors or restaurant owners do. A review is a subjective critique of the reviewers experience. Nothing more.

buckeye-kev 15 Reviews 1381 reads
posted
8 / 11

No, the lies are by the reviewers claiming they got acts they didn't.  That is bad for the providers because then others want/expect the same treatment ( when it was fictitious to start with ).  They then appear to be inconsistent and appear to be giving less service to others - when that isn't the case.  They are the victims of this - which is why it is loathsome IMO.

YMMV is a BS cop-out that some use as justification for lying or for not being consistent or taking responsibility.  Sure people are different etc., but that term is used as a catch all to lie or deceive - typically.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 1340 reads
posted
9 / 11

that he got more services or better service than he actually did.

What would he or the provider gain by it?

He would lose credibility in future reviews.

She would lose customers who come and are disappointed in their time together because they anticipated getting something they they didn't get.  As a result they would write a poor review.

I often write reviews and do not mention getting certain services that were "off the menu" so to speak just in order to avoid having the provider be in the situation I described above.

It's always a thrill to get more than you bargained for, but always a turn off to get less.

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 1133 reads
posted
10 / 11

OK, I misunderstood your point about lies in reviews. I agree that it does hurt the provider. YMMV can sometimes be a catch all phrase but it is still a reality in the hobby. The reasons why it exists may come from both the customer and the provider side at varying times. It's not always an "excuse" for offering poor service. It IS sometimes a reason for refusing service, or some part of her services, to a customer who a lady has issues with-whatever they may be.

buckeye-kev 15 Reviews 1347 reads
posted
11 / 11

Some providers have told me that many of their reviews are accurate but some are full of exaggerated descriptions.  I guess it is a "locker room bravado" thing with some guys.  I don't see the upside either, but I guess some guys need to stroke their own egos and brag.  Who knows!

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