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MiCkeYxDoLL See my TER Reviews 2092 reads
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1 / 16

ok so i just had a photo shoot a few days ago.
i am doing my ads and was just doing some thinking about what u guys like.

what do you really want to see when a girl post her ad?
what most attracts you guys to a girls posts/ads?  
what do you prefer to see in the ads to attract you?
how about things that turn you off from the ad and you wont see the girl.
is it anything in a ad that will make you not see a girl besides the usual? i mean if she isnt your type then i understand.
do you prefer topless pics and tasteful sexy pics?
im a newbie and learning still so i was just curious.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 1465 reads
posted
2 / 16

You don't have to spread your legs, but it should be revealing enough, and be well lit, artistically posed and composed, and fill the page but not overfill it so you have to scroll up and down or left and right to see it all.

After that, times, location, rates and how to contact you.

Keep it simple.

Sphinxnc 19 Reviews 1188 reads
posted
3 / 16

Pictures - Don't have to be fully nude but at least give me a good idea of what your body is like.  More than one view please.

Location - if you don't tell me your general location, I'm probably not going to take time to find out.

Contact information - Make sure it's correct.

Reviews - If you have reviews, at least say where I can find them.  "Well Reviewed" usually is a lie.

Donations - Nuff said

If you need screening information now would ba a good time to mention it.

No whingdings, whizzers or attention grabbers in the text.  If you can't post without abbreviating everything then don't waste my time.

Good luck.......  Play safe..........

angelexotic See my TER Reviews 954 reads
posted
4 / 16

They hate when your punctuation is off. Simply because they arent used to reading stuff typed in this way like us crazy broads do. And they simply have hard time reading it this way. I also myself hate these upclose pics of my kitty up close and actually the really generous mature hobbyists . They all gave me feedback saying thats not nessecary. For me to be putting pictures up like that. I my personal opinion here. I am new and learning too. I am seeing the nicer more generous respectful clients are not ok with the crzy pics. They atract the rougher clients that be younger and maybe even harder to handle. Again dont quote me on this i am new too and also trying to get a grip on what cool n not so cool with the guys here. But start capitalizing the I s theyl give you alot of negative feedback on that . They did to me any ways!

CentralSeeker 997 reads
posted
5 / 16

Posted By: MiCkeYxDoLL
ok so i just had a photo shoot a few days ago.
i am doing my ads and was just doing some thinking about what u guys like.
What attracts me most is first of all pictures, especially being able to see the face.  But at least a part of it.  In the pictures something topless is nice but enough different angles to get a good idea of the body type you have.

Then I like clarity around rates, expectations of contact, and also just some text about you and what you like or your general philosophy on life.

Links to sites like P411 are good too, as are reviews if you have any...

The better the site looks the better class of people you will attract!

keystonekid 114 Reviews 698 reads
posted
6 / 16

for discretion.  You can cover your face in various ways and you can cover your breasts with long hair or a nicely placed article of clothing.  Full nudity is not necessary; leave something for us to discover when we see you.  For me, I enjoy unwrapping my present (you).

Lastly, for larger states, be sure you ad indicates what city you are located in.  It is frustrating to see an ad for a lady, check her website, and then discover she is located in a city several hundred miles away.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 790 reads
posted
7 / 16

I applaud you Angel. Your posts have improved greatly. I am glad you have taken our advice and constructive criticism, and put it to good use. (even passing it on) I hope you have also found that it has helped your business. Keep up the good work. Good luck!

BeautywithBrains See my TER Reviews 911 reads
posted
8 / 16

....both angles of a post, and follows a few newbies, I cannot agree with PS more.  You are developing into wonderful, desireable "Angel".

  I wish you nothing but the best!

Hugs and Good Luck

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 800 reads
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9 / 16

If you have a website, all your ad needs is Pictures, rates,  location and some text that will entice me to look at your website. I will get the other information from the website and reviews before I contact you. I will rarely if ever contact someone just from an ad. So why have so much info on an ad? The ad just needs to intice me enough to look into you further.

On the other hand if you are really brand new and don't even have a website, then your ad will need a lot more information. And you shold work on getting a website. There are a lot of free or low cost, user friendly, template type sites, that a lot of providers use. Later on, if you get more established and are doing well financially, you can hire a webmaster and design a custom website.

As for pics, they should be sexy but not pornographic. They can be clothed or nude, but should be a fair representation of you. The pics should look like what I am going to see when I meet you. If they are clothed shots, then it shold be swimsuits, ligerie, or tight clothes that show your body. If you blur or hide your face for discretion that is okay but I should still somehow get an idea from the pics of what your face and hair look like.

impposter 49 Reviews 778 reads
posted
10 / 16

About the location thing: I've clicked on too many random links to someone's website and I have no idea what their "home base" or general location is. A simple "Greater Atlanta" or "New York City and vicinity" or however you want to word it should be someplace. If you're comfortable, you can add more info for your local followers: "Private In-call on the Upper West Side", "North Shore" (something that locals will know the meaning of, e.g., Boston's North Shore.) But never be TOO specific: "Hosting 5 minutes from Exit 47" which everyone will know has only one hotel.

What I do NOT like in ads are bells and whistles and hi-tech stuff that many of us don't need and don't want. Many of us read boards and ads as discreetly as we can and that sometimes means filtering out Flash, scripts, blocking cookies and ANYTHING potentially malicious. NO MUSIC! Some guys use that 10-year old computer in the basement that they know no one else in the house is going to use for anything. Beta test your site on the simplest, oldest, "dumbest" machine you can find.  Even though I am hi-tech for work, my surfing is lo-tech.

Sometimes I recommend having different versions of your site that can be chosen from the Main Page:
Enter [here] for Flash. Enter [here] for Mobile. Enter [here] for plain HTML.

Good luck!

lungman 10 Reviews 941 reads
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11 / 16
lungman 10 Reviews 623 reads
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12 / 16

I loved it when u had a pic of your pussy ( from behind ) on your site.
You could even see your tight little bung hole. It was hotter than hell!!
Wish more ladies would do it, i for one, love it!! Wanna see, what i'm paying in for.

ps, your grammer, is much improved!

sexyangelique69 See my TER Reviews 1172 reads
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13 / 16

I actually asked experienced guys I was seeing what they looked for and why they picked me when I was first starting out.

Pictures are the key... they look at pictures first, usually, before they even read your ad.

One guy actually went through some Backpage ads with me and told me what he saw as a guy. It was incredibly eye opening. I saw a beautiful girl with a very nice body... he saw a girl who looked like she didn't want to be there.

Facial expressions and attitude are key. Don't do the "mad model" poses and expressions you see the other girls doing if you have a peppy, friendly personality. You want your photos to capture your personality. And if you don't normally wear your hair up or curled, don't do it in the photo shoot. Don't do the photo shoot and then cut and dye your hair afterwards. Try to look like you will look in person when the door opens.

And, yes, classy wins over slutty every time.

I was armed with all of this information before my first professional photo shoot and it made all the difference.

If you get the guy's attention with your pix, confident, mature and intelligent text in the ad is also important.

1192967 45 Reviews 1001 reads
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14 / 16
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MiCkeYxDoLL See my TER Reviews 1056 reads
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16 / 16

This has been helpful and please more people feel free to add more.  I think i have been doing a good job so far with my ads/posts. I just want to continue to improve and do my best.

Again thanks everyone for all the input/suggestions and advice.

xoxoMickey Dollxoxo

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