Hey Newbies and Newcomers to the hobby. I just wanted to post some info for those of you who are having difficulty when it comes to booking a girl for an incall date.

I knew when I was just getting into the hobby that timing ,prepping , and planning are important factors when planning and going through with an appointment. I believe in the saying "Work before play." I primarily set evening appointments. I only do daytime appointments on the weekend only, if special circumstances are present .  

Setting an appointment for me can almost sometimes be equivalent to Danny Ocean's crew planning a heist. I primarily keep an eye on my schedule for potential "Date Nights when I have nothing going on. I usually am able to have a set of dates open within one month. Once I have a date in mind, then the wheels start turning. I ALWAYS book in advance (Within one week of the date at the LATEST. The SOONER the BETTER). I do this if the girl is someone you've never seen before (Assuming some of you reading this have already gotten your feet wet) that requires screening. The sooner you send the request before the date in mind, the more time she has to screen you and get the date set up. The only time I'll pull off a last minute booking (Booking a girl within 6-12 hours of the preferred time of the date) is if my schedule has an opening pop randomly. The only real girls that you could book in this situation would be a girl whom you've seen before who is flexible with same day bookings. You could also go the BP route if you know what you're doing (Yes, there are good reviewed providers who advertise on BP that DO NOT require screening).

I'm always mindful when it comes to pre-appointment prep. I give myself a good 60-90 minutes to get ready and be at the Door of the incall on schedule. Shower , freshen up, get dressed, and I'm out the door. If I have to, I'll stop by an ATM to withdraw funds for the date.  

Getting to the incall location is also important, and another reason why I give myself plenty of time. I live in the Raleigh/Durham NC area, and traffic around here can be a clusterfuck (Pardon my harsh language). I like to have a good 30-20 minutes to get to the incall, pending on where in the area it is .  

My common flaw though is that I always get there 5-10 minutes early, which can drive some (Not all) providers crazy. I've learned it's best to drive around the area some to kill some time. Most of the appointments I set are at the top of the hour , and I usually park and call the provider within minutes of the start time. Take this for Example: I have an appointment w/ Suzy at 7pm at a hotel incall by the airport. I get off at the exit where the hotel is located close by at 6:50 pm. I drive down the road away from the hotel for roughly 3 minutes, then drive back. I get back to the hotel, I'll park at around 6:57 pm and contact Suzy (Note: Not all providers communicate via phone call. Some Text) to let her know I'm there. She picks up/texts back to let me know she's in room 213. I hang up and walk up to the room, and get to the door right at 7pm. If she isn't ready , I go drive around the area some more until she gets back up with me to let me know she's ready and what room she's in. I NEVER stay parked if there's a delay. Staying parked could easily arouse suspicion from others nearby.

Other hobbyists have different strategies, but this is my preferred plan of action. I hope this knowledge is helpful for you in your future dates, and I wish the best of luck to you fellows.

All great points you make. I give myself about two hours before seeing a provider. i even know a former provider that's now living in Charlotte. I make at least one trip there to see her.

than be rushed because of traffic or finding her incall difficulties.

I'm one of those that's not normally available without at least 12-24 hours advance notice. But if I do happen to be available, and a client phrases it REALLY nicely (he realizes that it's a long shot, but the opportunity just came up, etc) and especially, if he's a guy I've seen before, then I'll be likely try to see him if I can. (If he consistently contacts me with last-minute requests, even after I've repeatedly told him I need more notice, then the opposite is true).

Timeliness is next to godliness, lol. But yea, it's stressful for the girl when a guy texts her, like 30 minutes before the date is scheduled to start, and says, 'I'm ready!!' Even if he makes it clear that there's no hurry for me to arrive, I still feel like he's rushing me. I'd say it's one of my pet peeves. So as you said, even if you're early, just wait until the set time

directly after a shower.  After a traffic delay screwed me up...  a sudden local weather event stopped traiffic on the interstate...   She finally picked up at the time I should have been arriving & I was nearly half hour away IF I could have driven the speed limit.  So we cancelled.  She was gracious & we were able to reschedule a day or 2 later.  

Now, I plan to arrive at least 15 minutes early.  I scout the parking quickly then withdraw to the corner coffee shop...  often within sight of the place.  I time my return very closely.  Sometimes, I'll actually call from the coffee shop lot, so I can quickly arrive & go in.  Only once did the gal say "I can't see you!"  Apparently loking out the window & saw no car.  By then I was in the lot & pulled up.

I always try to arrive early.  Usually I get to the location 20 min early.  If it's a multiple level parking lot, I just stay in the car.  If not, I go to the hotel and sit in a coffee shop or some other stores.  I call/text 5 min before the appointed time.  

Last session, the hotel's star buck was closed so I actually went to the restroom and sat there 10 min waiting

Traffic and weather is always a crapshoot.  My biggest prob is traffic, as to see most local providers I have to travel at least a half hour to get to her.   I usually give myself at least an extra 15 minutes leeway.  If I don't need the extra time, I will drive around until about 5 minutes before the scheduled time to see her.  My experience has been that most providers do NOT want you to get there early, esp if it's your first visit with her.

LLAP,
Swim

I will not sit in a hotel lot...  EVER!  I've had Black & White's cruise by giving me the hairy eyeball...  A local budget hotel near me has been in the news & requested stepped up patrols...  I try to avoid the place but I think the lesson applys to every hotel.  Do you want LE running your plates or asking questions?  I don't.  

I like to wait at a coffee shop...  but a convience store, fast food, gas station will do.  A coffee, iced tea, water, candy bar...   If it's someplace I'm not supposed to be, I purchase with pocket cash.  Lots of folks use the drive thru...  and then sit in their cars...  so I'd be doing exactly as expected.  That's how to blend in.      

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