I'm into things that I don't know a provider offers, but its a deal breaker if they are not.

The services info tab doesn't talk about it....

 
In my mind I can write an email and talk about what I like, because there is no talk about anything other then what I like.

For instance if im going to be with a provider and I have a foot fetish... but i want to go to a certain provider that doesn't say anything about foot fetishes... I still want to know if she doesn't mind, or is into that... I don't want to get to a point of no return and find out its a no no.. Then what.. I've just wasted my time.  

What can I do?

Thank you All

Peace....

 
**Moved from Las Vegas Board**

on local board what you seek and have gals/guys give input. Never good to ask the provider straight out

Or at least that has been my personal experience...

I am super fetish friendly and accepting of people, but I swear to god, only 1 out of 10 or 20 people who contact me and mention anything pertaining to feet/shoes/stockings etc PROVIDE SCREENING INFO AND FOLLOW THROUGH WITH AN ACTUAL BOOKING!

Sadly many of your foot loving bretheren have tried to use us providers for free phone/email wank-off material for way too long! Thus I personally require at least one verified provider reference before I will entertain any mention of toe-nail polish color, foot arches, shoe size or style, stocking color and type etc.  

I've met a few foot guys over the years who were total sweeties, but MOST seem to be these neurotic, type A personality, control freaks who are total pains in my ass... I mean, FOOT! Lol.

Just saying.

Thank you for that honest reply....

 
Remember there is a difference between They and I. Even thou every human is similar, still, we are all UNIQUE. If you want to break it down... Just look at our DNA.

Feet are 1 out of over 100 fetishes I have. They all kinda blend together. I don't even like to call them fetishes. However here's no word that I am aware of that can describe what I'm talking about.) If any providers want to pick my brain to find out... I charge $250 a hr....lol :p

If I was satisfied with having half of those taken care of, I wouldn't be here. I can get that out there.

I respect a providers time. You ladies are always working... Even when you're not doing anything. Your always on the hustle.

Now.... That's my respect level for who I'm conducting my business with. If a provider does not respect my needs and comfort...then why bother.

to give you an analogy (esoteric) Imagine your customer shows up with no DONATION saying

"Give me the first hour of your time for free, so i can see if I like you. Then after that, If I do.. I will pay you."  

That same thought you think after hearing that, is the same thought i think after I don't get any communication.  

I'm just learning how to maneuver in this field. There is a thin line between Legal and Illegal. Rules are rules. We didn't make em.. We just got to follow em.

Just learnin the ropes.

again, thank you for your reply

This is essentially what you are asking when you demand that she exchange elaborate, self-indulgent email/phone communications with you!  

And why should SHE PAY YOU $250 an hour to "pick your brain?" THAT'S why god invented whores and shrinks! They get paid to do the proverbial PICKING! Yeeeesh.

Here is what you need to do- draft a SHORT, CONCISE, PG-13 introductory email that captures the core of what you want out of future sessions. (Do not, I repeat,  DO NOT go off on a tangent and start listing off all 100 fetishes!) End said email with any references you have, so the ladies know you are serious and not just doing a little one handed typing... *wink* *wink*

I'll leave you with the immortal words of Green Day-

"I went to a shrink
To analyze my dreams
He says it's lack of sex
That's bringing me down
I went to a whore
She said my life's a bore
So quit my whining cause
It's bringing her down

My advice is to do your research by reading the reviews and websites of gals you are interested in. Meet with one and have a "generic" session. If you like her and wish to repeat, bring up the subject of fetishes and see where it goes.
Most providers won't discuss specific activities before they are comfortable with you.
Unless you have some very unusual thoughts, I would think most providers would be happy to oblige.  
If you practice some patience, you should be fine.
Good luck.

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Just ask...

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If his post is about simply asking, "Do you allow foot fetish" and that's it, I don't have a problem with it. If OTOH, he wants to sit there and write a fkin dissertation about his sexual needs and a play by play of what the date is going to be like, he needs to stick with providers who don't screen, and are that stupid to admit in writing no less, they are having sex for money.

Oh, and this is the kind of porn that one of the "good" foot guys was into... He was actually kind of sexy, but that's another topic!

Lol... I ant talking about that kinda of foot fetish

This lack of communication between parties is annoying.  

I know it's the nature of the business.

It's just a turn off.

Ohh well. Everything happens for a reason.  

 
Thanks for everyone's time and input.  

The effort is appreciated