I'm in my rookie season....I have been sourcing from BP and need to step up to a higher level due to several clunkers in a row...screening is often required by higher end providers and many do not accept BP providers as references...and just how would a provider remember me anyway, especially when their lucidity was in question at the time?  what ways are there other than references where one can pass a screening?  I have posted a few reviews on TER.....I have nothing to hide as I am single and am willing to provide some personal info with known, reviewed providers so that they can be confident that I'm cool...any suggestions?

joining one or more of the verification sites will help you.  Date-Check, Preferred411, and RoomService2000 are the 3 that I know of.  I do that P411 will do their best to work with you to get you verified.  If one of the providers you have seen  recommends you for DC or P411, joining will be much easier.  RS2K is most popular in the midwest, the other 2 more widespread over the country.

....references and verification sites are just other tools I use, to verify someone.  I would never accept either as a sole means of verification.  Gentlemen must still forward the information I ask for on my appointment form from my website.

Opened up this hobby world to me, as it has thousands of other guys!

thanks for the feedback.....how do I find P411 to register?