Hi.  I'm relatively new to the hobby and wanted some advice from the experienced providers and hobbyists on how to have the best first meeting with a provider.

I've done the massage parlor thing for a while now, but that just isn't working for me.  I want to find a couple providers that I could see on a semi-regular basis.  I've gotten my VIP membership here -- which I highly recommend -- and have been doing my research with the reviews of providers in my area.

I've tried a couple agency girls, and things did not go as well as I had hoped.  The girls were nice, but weren't quite what I was looking for.  I was also a bit nervous, which didn't help, but I think that will fade with time and repetition.

Aside from verification -- which I would have to do using work into -- what things should a newbie like me do to maximize my first experience with a specific provider?  I want to make sure that she is comfortable with me and that we have a mutually good time.

Thanks!