which isnt true, does ter, see that its not true n not put up? or do they post any review.

and while still trying to be "nice" in accordance with the unwritten policy of the newbie board. Your problems are larger than anything that can be addressed on an anonymous fuck board.

We may be able to address a few of the symptoms of your life choices, but if you want things to be "normal" you need to eliminate the sources of drama in your life, and I would suggest looking inward before looking to others as the root cause of your problems

ok Dr Gambler is finished now. lol

BTW I would certainly advise that you continue to post on THIS board, you would be eaten alive on board where the readership is a bit more raucous, like GD.

However TER has he right to take it down.  Often the Lady will state things in the review that are false which TER can verify somehow.   Threatening a bad review is really dumb, intimidation...   Presumeably to get some advantage over the lady, a discount or to be seen when she's already refused.   This is when a black list is justified, IMHO.

I am then recieveing threatening emails like last nights stated ..."You will get whats coming to you.'   'What goes around comes around. We did have an understanding before with service s then help, however before christmas last month I was left with no help. I now do not obviously wish to service him any longer. I did ask for small amoutn help nbefore christmas which he always helps when I fall short in past doin things like takn care whole rent several months in row {1650!} So i obviously dont want to continue giving him free services. I f hes goin to bail on me end month nopw. In fact he showed uop three times in a week, and asked me for money! I just blocked three his numbers, then he d continue to call. And he trys to make me feel i owe him when I try and break it off I get the scary emaisl and end up runnin back cuz I d just rather avoid problems and dont know what hes capable of. I told the pm here iwill keep eyes peeled. He is absolutely livid. I am not going to be hsi grilfriend any more! when he is married! its so fuct its like gfe gone horribly awry , and he thinks i am his gf! when he has this crazy wife who already went to haverill police on me rsulkting in me having to move to a new location. she was aslo coming to my old incall sanctuary I was eeing my few regulars at. i generally keep few close regulars and do not do high volume. same repeat peopel. . I know people say do hotels but i fond havin a cheap apt near my actual residence to serve me better and be more convenient as I have tons of things i use at appts and couldnt bring it carted around to hotels.

Cut expenses, stop going out, what ever it takes to get your financial house in order.  As long as you accept "help" from him, you send conflicted signals.  I presume you have tried to be nice, & break it off...  I presume you know who he is which is a little different than normal stalker cases.  It is not unusual for a guy to "fall for" someone they have great sex with, especially repeatedly.  It's hormonal, useful in the age of dinosaurs & cave men, protecting the women & children.  It's normally poison to hear the L word (L O V E) from a client.  We may love what you do or how you make us feel but we don't LOVE you & you don't LOVE us.  
You will have to break all contact.  If he comes around, send him away.  If he won't leave you might have to call the Police.  (You might want to post on the legal board for tips.)  What you do for a living is not a concern.  He is married.  He's an ex-lover who is stalking you.  You might have to close your business or relocate or both (short term) to get rid of him.  You might have to get a restraining order or get an atty to write him an official cease & desist letter.   I suggest you read back on the legal board & search for stalkers.  

If this guy is a TER member...  you might want to advise the admin that client x is threatening a false review...  TER can read IP addresses (admittedly IP addresss can be spoofed) but TER likely could ID a particular fake reviewer.  

You'll have to be on your guard...  breaking off with a stalker has an element of the unknown...  you can't be sure what he'll do.  

Best wishes,
skb

when your "Dr. Jeckyl side" comes out!  I bet you had to knock back a few after that!  lol!  Watchng you try to be nice is like watching a drunk try to walk.  Thanks for the chuckle!

He was paying for sessions, and paying your rent which added up to that amount, then no you're just cutting him off.

This is a no brainer, he feels like you used him, now that you got all you need from him, you no longer want to him, so he want his money back. My advice, I would either pay him back with sessions, or pay him his money back. Sounds like you brought this on yourself

One thing is for sure, Angel is fucking hot!!

The woman's life sounds like something off Judge Judy. My suggestion is that she gain control of her life and expenditures. If she can't pay the rent regularly each month, she need look at how she is handling her money or find a cheaper place to live. Not being harsh, but I find it somewhat hard to have sympathy for a person that create their own problems and appear to be oblivious to their own decision making.

Have you considered multi-level marketing?

She takes his "help" then wants to cut him off. Sounds like she took his "help" after trying to cut him off. Have no idea if he is a problem person or not, he could be but this is a problem she created by taking his help and letting it get beyond client provider relationship.

pay him back, work it off, or stick to a payment plan.   You got yourself into this...  if you want him to 'go away' then give him his money back.  Then he'll have no reason to come around.   You can't have it both ways.
skb

Her ad says she doesn't take many new clients because her regulars keep her so busy - so why can't she pay her rent?

I think Swim is much better suited for this board as he is a thousand times nicer, but saying Swim is nicer than me is like saying you are more honest than Willy Wonka, pretty faint praise indeed. lol

you were blunt but not vicious about. thanks. I suppose yes I maybe trusted too much and believed some one was telling truth. and shouldve kept it business. lesson learned.

hahahaha. lol. !

thank you !!! wait til you see new pics . another shoot today. {its going to invove me sucking some white choc chips and then gettn the chocolate all drippy and looking like you know what. then i am going to be sucking a white lollipop in school girl knee highs. with the melted white choc chips drippn on boobs . Theyl be up latah in week. Its intended to be funny but a little perverted. Theres more i am doing I want to be surprise you"l habe to stay posted i will maybe put them up later in week.

to a friend i grew up with , who I knewn since 4. whos very protective of me. And some other male friends. I asked them to please defend me. Tell him to stop. it worked. !   He hasnt emailed since. Ah nice to have alot of scary big men as friends isnt it? Problem solved.  I do relocate every *8 months. To a new place. Next stop.

like adding manscaping to my menu since i have my cosmetolgy certification?

He wasnt helping that much. I def do alot better with out wasting time with him actually. He was quite in way. He helped a tiny bit . few times. Then dec. decided he would claim he is broke so i obvious;ly wont be servicing him this month or any other month. If he wants to pretend he is broke. He is just gettn 86 d . And hel regret it cuz I wasnt chargn hourly with him just wanted something some small help end month . If hooked him upo all omonht. I actually thought he was really hot, but i mean if i take weeks off hey 75 toward cable bill i mean something anything. wouldve been ok. He just claimed to be broke beforwe christmas after ten months of helping i wasnt expectin it honestly.

hence why i keep tellin him i cant mentally keep up with this leaison with this married foprmor client i got to close too now, finding it harder n harder to make ends meet my wastin time with him. rather spend energy on actual appts. He just gets mad n says u onnly care about money. Trys to mkaek me feel bad. Trust me i d rather hang with him all month n call it a day but i did that and now cable bills r all raked up to 500, had to diwsconnect cell, fell behind. no he wasnt capable of helpin . so needless to say i had to stop the relation with him. I def do not owe him money. !

he helped me here n there but never said it was needed to be paid back thats not an issue.

I do pay my rent ! i got great recomendation from last residence and got accepted to this new place with my note from landlord my rent is never pate. what r u guys talkn about.

he gave me security depsoit 200 short of one, i did first last , and have taken care everything since moved in . that was in oce. he hadnt helped with anything since. So that a g note three months ago guys. and no kick downs since, but i am talkn great service i was givin him past three months so I shut him off after no action since oct from him as far help.                 if i addded up how many time s we did pse since oct god dam , he d be in a hole!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   you guys mis understand. i wouldnt do that take then shiut some one off!!!!!

This response is the shit. (That's a compliment, for those who don't know the vernacular.)

I had a guy do the same thing. He had 20 names-likely one for each of his personalities. Anyway, it went up, despite the fact that it went against the solid and excellent ones I had. Then 30 angry guys who were supportive of me yelled at him, he realized that, since I did outcalls to him, I had his legal name, address, number, work info., etc., he got scared, the review was taken down. So THAT works lol. Otherwise, you or one of your clients with VIP can submit a problem report. Finally, if you have a ton of great ones and one bad one, most guys can figure out that the majority rules and the reviewer who "graded" you poorly is just being a bitter asshole.