I am a newbie expecting to try this week. Has anyone every gone to the incall location like hours early and as inconspicously as possible checked out the comings and goings in case of LE? I picked a provider with an extensive reviews but I am still nervous as hell.

I am sure if there is LE present they would hardly notice a guy sitting in a car in a hotel parking lot for a few hours...especially a nervous guilty looking guy - no flags there at all.

Not only that, but if the lady happens to see a dude sitting in the lot when she goes to her car and he is still sitting there when she gets back from lunch, and then you show up at her door later in the day, I am sure she will be thrilled to see you.

Dude, take a chill pill, live a little, get your Fuck on and quit worrying...or you will jinx yourself and you will never be able to perform...LOL!

The Jerk

If she is a well reviewed provider then you should have no problem. To go lurking around her neighborhood at her incall is only going to cause more problems for her. And what if someone spots you and calls LE, now you are a stalker?

Reone this before?

LOL I have =)

I'm still new to this so I thought it would be a good idea. Anyways, I stopped by just a bit earlier to see if anybody were being arrested by the LE. I was just being paranoid.

But now, I take my time going up, and I look around while I enter the location. Just in case.

And it's true, I guess it would look super suspicious if there were LE around, BUT at least being suspicious isn't a crime, and they can't bust you on that right?

Good luck! Have fun!

Spud

It doesn't hurt to do a drive by a few minutes before your date and check out if any Crown Vic's are sitting in the lot.

For heaven's sake, don't sit there and make cell phone calls or something like that.

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make the call, cursory check of the area for Crown Vics etc, and then into the frey.  I hate sitting in my car for more than a couple of minutes after arrival... you actually stand a better chance of drawing attention to yourself.

on the other token, I am a newbie at been a provider and I am trying to find my first time to be enjoyable and not been afraid to get busted at my home so how do I go around not getting busted by LE

Obviously the less attention you draw to yourself the better. I would arrive at the scheduled time. Trust your gut. If you have done your homework, and the lady has a lot of reviews, I would say with a 99.99999% conviction that you are perfectly fine. You did not mention if this lady is an Indy or part of an agency. If she is an Indy you have nothing to worry about. If she works under an agency, there is that remote chance that the agency has been targeted. But again, the chances that anything will happen on your day and time of arrival are so remote its not worth losing sleep over.

had a meet set and when I entered the lobby there were 4 uniform cops in the lobby. I left in a hurry Don't know what they were there for but I wasn't going to stick around and find out

They didn't follow you after you stormed out of there? LOL

This why they have outcall????

It would seem that it is almost impossible to get arrested when she comes to you. I don't feel comfortable coming to someone else's turf. I'd rather get a hotel room and have her come to me on neutral turf.