Yes, please, do bring up any fantasies, excellent idea to NOT mention it on the initial meeting.

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But I personally do not mind being asked about a fantasy on the initial meet, I just refuse if it's not for me.
I've really heard it all so nothing shocks me, and there were only two that I refused
Kiisees
Winter

-And, I'll share my thoughts, in that the hobby provides a safe environment for mature adults to express themselves and their thoughts in a safe and consensual place.
I think it is important for gentlemen in the hobby to understand that most providers want to know the particular behavior that their clients have in mind. (*After all, if you can't share it with a provider who can you share it with*)
As a provider, ladies can always entertain suggestions and if it is something that is "not on their menu" they can always decline any behavior.
As a hobbyist, I would advice you to never refrain from divulging thoughts or fantasies to a provider out of fear of judgment as all of the providers that I consider professional would never judge anyone .... whether the behavior is something they offer or not. Judgment of client's behavior isn't truly the behavior of a professional. (*no matter how bizarre it might be*) ~Just try to remember to form a level of comfort with the provider before suggesting an indulgence to your fantasies!... it will definitely be received with a more positive response if she is confident with who she is communicating with.
So, share away with confidence, that is what the hobby is about.....   kisses ~Tori