Is it ok to ask the provider about fullfilling your fantasy the next time you come around to see her. meaning after your initial meeting.

Yes, please, do bring up any fantasies, excellent idea to NOT mention it on the initial meeting.

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But I personally do not mind being asked about a fantasy on the initial meet, I just refuse if it's not for me.
I've really heard it all so nothing shocks me, and there were only two that I refused
Kiisees
Winter

-And, I'll share my thoughts, in that the hobby provides a safe environment for mature adults to express themselves and their thoughts in a safe and consensual place.
I think it is important for gentlemen in the hobby to understand that most providers want to know the particular behavior that their clients have in mind. (*After all, if you can't share it with a provider who can you share it with*)
As a provider, ladies can always entertain suggestions and if it is something that is "not on their menu" they can always decline any behavior.
As a hobbyist, I would advice you to never refrain from divulging thoughts or fantasies to a provider out of fear of judgment as all of the providers that I consider professional would never judge anyone .... whether the behavior is something they offer or not. Judgment of client's behavior isn't truly the behavior of a professional. (*no matter how bizarre it might be*) ~Just try to remember to form a level of comfort with the provider before suggesting an indulgence to your fantasies!... it will definitely be received with a more positive response if she is confident with who she is communicating with.
So, share away with confidence, that is what the hobby is about.....   kisses ~Tori