Definitely a newbie.   How do I arrange what I want (ie. massage with GFE, no FS) from an escort but I cant directly ask over the phone, as well as, how many roses specifically.  Especially if it isn't listed on the providers website.   Seems like a catch 22

If she lists an hourly rate in her ad or on her website that is her hourly rate.  You are not going to get a lower rate for a massage vs full service unless she lists a rate for massage only.

Some girls have multiple rates and some don't.  Most of the good ones are not going to deal with a guy trying to buy a la carte.

If a provider doesn't publish a rate, I usually ask, "Would you please tell me how much you charge for your companionship?"  This has always worked for me.  If I'm specifically looking for an hour, I'll ask, "Would you please tell me how much you charge for an hour of your companionship?"  You should not ask anything more specific than that on the phone.  You should rely on reviews to know what to expect during your time with her.

If you agree to her rate, then you work out a time to meet, and you ask her where she should meet you (if it's an incall).  She'll probably tell you to head toward a specific part of town and to call her again when you get there.  Then, when you call her to tell her you're in the neighborhood, she'll give you a hotel.  Then, you call her a third time when you're in the hotel parking lot, and she'll give you her room number.  Sometimes, during one of the calls, she'll ask you if you are affiliated with any law enforcement agencies.  I always reply, "No, I am not.  May I assume that you're not, either?"  She'll reply in the negative, and I'll comment that, in that case, I'm sure we'll enjoy our time together.  

If you've never been in the hotel before, ask her how to get to the elevator from the lobby, so that you can walk through the lobby with purpose instead of looking clueless.  Don't avoid eye contact with the people at the front desk--smile at them and say "good evening" (or whatever time of day it is) as though you're supposed to be there.

She may ask you to park in a certain part of the lot and ask what kind/color your car is so she can watch for you out the window.  This is fairly harmless IMO and makes her feel more at ease.

It's that simple.

I'm sorry, but what ladies are you seeing that are actually still asking this, lol? Just a head's up... this means absolutely NOTHING if either of you should happen to be LE. You think LE is going to say, "Yes, actually, in fact, I am"... no, they are going to LIE. Entrapment does not exist unless you are persuaded into a situation you would not have otherwise participated in(which by you just calling & showing up, you have just thrown that defense out the window).

I agree that this type of "LE Check" is a pointless waste of time, but there's no point in having a discussion with her about it on the phone before you see her (unless you don't want to see her).