I have been hobbying for about 18 months. Most of it locally, a couple of times, I was out of town and went with well reviewed TER providers.

So, this trip I found my self going to a town that does not have a TER presence. But there are some (very few) reviewed women there. Except for one, who was all 8.9 (looks) and 8&9 performance. Listed as MODEL MATERIAL etc. Her profile says 5'0-5'3 and "Athletic"...Now the lastest review was March 2015 and the one before that was Sept 2014 with quite a few in 2014 and 2013. Only web site listed is P411. OK, I'm a member... check her out there, and her profile there says 5'1 and 140lbs. I can't seem to make those numbers jive with MODEL material and ATHLETIC, but communicate with her via P411 then text. She says she has a big booty, doesn't want to mis-represent her self... her weight fluctuates by 15lbs, has never had a client walk away....So, that ends that convo as the body style that represents to me in my mind does not do it for me. So, thinking P411, I search on my city and come across a young agency girl, 21, which causes much angst as that just seems too young to me, plus her donation, while do-able is out of my normal price point. This agency also specializes in women in a nearby "larger" city. But I do confirm she will be in this city, and she has three good recent TER reviews.... All saying good service. So, this leads me to P411 searches. Several women in my travel city but all either too mature looking for me or too thick looking, with also high price points. So, I search another nearby city and find this fine looking red head.. (OK, I have a thing for natural red head). Says she is "independent", willing to visit my city. But I also note that there is another girl from that same city using the same phone number.. So, Bing and Google that number, nada... Hmmm. FB and TER search that number ... nada. Tineye and Google image search photos... nothing. I ask her, and she says that's her roommate and they share their business phone. Roommate also looks good, so OK. So, her P411 photos had only one "good" photo which was what piqued my interest. In our discussions, we agree on a out-call price, and she sends me some of those typical selfies taken from the driver's seat of a car. Still good, do a photo search on those and nada...

After I confirm, I note that her "roommate" is now showing up on P411 in the city I will be at for the few days around our scheduled date, my "date's" P411 profile is still at their "home" city. I find this too coincidental, but OK, they decide to drive to the city I am traveling to and see what can happen. But then why wouldn't both change their P411...

Am I over thinking this? Do I expect trouble? Does Gina screen the girls well? I was thinking of waiting at the bar/lobby and I "should" be able to recognize her when she walks in without giving her my room number.. Only problem with this is this is a conference and I will know a significant number of folks there, so hanging around with them and then walking towards my "niece" may be awkward. Since the city they call home is across a state line, I don't think I have to worry about LE. Especially LE heading to an outcall. If it's Bait and Switch and the "roommate" shows up, I am actually fine with that...

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Just draw lots and settle on one.

And don't entertain anywhere around where your business associates are.  No one is going to fall the the old "niece" routine, and tongues will wag

One of the most wonderful illuminations of this lifestyle was the revelation that there really is someone for everyone...I found that that extra 15 is really not such a big deal nor the wrinkles. I am so much more than all of that!  
 As for you, your size-waist or length, lol- do not make the man. It is the mind...the openness to true ecstacy and intimacy that will make your sought after expereince heighten.  I am ok with being not chosen by men who have so many specifics that they find to be deal breakers...it is a visual and mental thing to choose I suppose.  Advice::: once you choose, let go and just feel your way through after that!  The ingrediant that makes the pop is the true ability to let go and be present.  Nothing sexier!

And yes, agreed...your business partners will probably not buy the niece/s in town thing even if she looks a bit like you.  Find a discreet place to meet...unless a bit of exhibition of your desires in your work place is your hidden desire!

Why do you even hobby?  Sounds too painful the way you do it.

And I would not rely on Gina screening girls too much.

it certainly paints a tortured picture of the hobby life in the boondocks.

But how can I see when they joined and how any OK's they have given? I know that information shows up when I look at who has OK'ed me. but not how to just look at a provider and see that stuff

I bet the two of them have little in common with Omar Sharif and Julie Christie.

Always follow your gut. Sounds like more stress than pleasure. I wouldn't do it. Smells fishy to me. Pretty girls with fishy intentions can torn ugly. I would research the people who gave the reviews and see if they are well respected members in the community.  Don't let your cock do the thinking.