I talked to preferred411 today and told them it will be diifcult to verify myself because I'm self employed.They told me if I get 2 provider references they could do it that way.This is a basically a Catch - 22 type thing.
What providers will take me if I can't verify ?

I know it can be hard and is a catch 22. However some providers in your area may have alternative screening methods. I know ive been able to screen the self employed in some cases.

look for someone with a good rep who's been in the business for a while and then send an short email pleading your case - if you were in LA id at least try to see if i could verify you, I'm sure other ladies will to.

Jenny

Thanks Jenny ! If I were in LA I would take you up on your offer.
Curently there is a local girl I found on backpage.com that doesn't require me to be verified and can't or won't verify herself.She told me she's not LE.Does this sound funny to you ?

Heh, join the club, sweetie.  It's a catch22 with the providers, too.

That sounds a little funny, yes.  Just from my newb perspective she should be at least asking for something to verify you.  Even just your TER handle, if she frequents the site.

Hi and thanks SaschaDoesIt. She said she's familiar wth TER but doesn't like the detailed reviews.
What would you ask for to verify me ?

I've been asking for the TER handle because I don't have full access to the site yet and am waiting on my first reviews to come in.

The verification thing really is a catch22 when you've got nothing to start from.  Someone, somewhere has to take a chance on you.  Either a provider takes it or the client takes it to establish the girl.

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In the future I'll take the chance and just ask for a non sexual massage and to give the girl a foot rub.Can't get busted for that , lol.

girls, guys, LE they can all lie and say they are not LE. LE are allowed to lie its a common misconception that they have to tell you the truth. They DONT.  Asking someone if they are LE and them denying it doesn't mean that they aren't.

id be very careful about anyone you cant find out is legit and extra careful about anyone who doesn't screen YOU. if they don't screen you, that means they don't screen anyone.... not a good sign for safety.

as a newbie, id recommend you find a reviewed lady to see and see if you can get her to work with you on the screening.

That's great advice, Jenny, and I'll be taking it to heart myself.  

I was also gonna say, see if any reviewed ladies do M&G sessions.  For us newbs it's a good way to let the client feel comfortable without any money exchanging hands and it should be the same way with you.  It's NOT illegal to buy a lady a drink, after all.

Yes , I know it is a common misconception that a undercover cop has to tell you they're a cop if you ask.
I had one provider tell me that a cop told her it would make it harder for an undercover cop if you met for some drinks in the lounge/bar of the providers motel before going back to her room for the date.I don't exactly know the rationale behind that theory , though. ???

Actually, the best reviews leave some to the imagination after all there's no way to duplicate the exact unique combination of 2 individuals.
We need to know the basics,
real pictures?
on time,
delivered as promised,
would you repeat?
skb

I had a provider tell me that she could tell I wasn't a cop if I groped her. I don't know if that's true or not, but I can see why someone would want to start that rumor.

Oh, okay. I'll fondle your breasts if I have to.

Let's start a rumor that police officers can't receive a BBBJTC from a suspect!

>It's NOT illegal to buy a lady a drink, after all.

It is if she's under 21. :-P

It may have to do with consumption of alcohol while on duty.

I don't know where you are, Matt. Did you hear about the shooting death of Sean Bell by undercover NYPD officers in the early morning hours of what was to be his wedding day? The one undercover in the strip club they were trying to bust for prostitution was allowed to consume one or two drinks so that other people in the club wouldn't get suspicious that he might be an undercover cop. So a lady may have to get a guy blotto to make sure he's not LE.