I'm a newbie who is very shy and has low confidence around women. I've had one serious girlfriend but it didn't work out. I would like to gain experience being around a beautiful women and also sexual experience in order to gain self confidence. I would like to meet a girl who would be willing to discuss relationships and also provide some sexual lessons so that I may become more sexually competant.Any help would be appreciated. Thanks.

1. Get a VIP membership to TER.
2. Research the providers in your area.  This will take some time, and you need the membership to read the reviews in full detail.
3. Go back to steps 1 and 2 if you're even thinking about taking another route.  There is no subtituting these first two steps.
4. By reading the reviews and the discussion boards thoroughly, you can educate yourself.
5.  Find your provider(s) based on lots & lots of positive reviews.  Specifically, you should be looking for providers who get rave reviews "for providing a real GFE session". PM some of the recent reviewers of the provider(s) that you're considering, and get more info from them.
6.  Contact the provider and arrange a session.  Be cooperative in providing the info they request to verify that you're legit.  If she's well reviewed, she's not looking for anything other than guarding her own safety.  Don't spaz out here.  Do this a week ahead of when you want to meet.  Do NOT tell her at this time, about your circumstances b/c that would concern her that you might be LE.
7. Sometime between step 6 and your date, contact your provider and tell her how much you're looking forward to meeting her.  Now tell her that you're new at this, somewhat lacking in confidence but that you're excited to see her and can't wait.  AGAIN, DON'T mention anything about sex.
8. Show up for the date on time and clean.  Put your payment in a "thinking of you" type greeting card, and present it with a small gift (like a nice bottle of wine, or a scented candle).  This will help break the ice.  Again, if she's well reviewed she's going to pick up your signals and move the session to the next stage.  She may ask if you want a massage or if you "want to get comfortable"?  If so, get undressed.  You may get asked "what do you want?" This is when you tell her again about being "new at this".  Don't bore her with too much info.  If these types of questions aren't asked, it's likely that she's already "gotten physical" with you.  Relax & go with the flow.  Enjoy!  If you feel particularly inaddequate at some detail, I would probably wait for a second date with her to discuss it.  Be as nice and normal as you can on this first date.  Remember, she doesn't know you yet.