I saw a well reviewed hobbiest with litterally like 30 submitted reviews and several white listings. during our session he was very nice I will not say his name or even any thing bad about him but I was put in a position I did not feel comfortable about. he kept trying to get me to do something that was not listed on my Menu. I told him kindly several times that I don't offer that. .. i made sure that he enjoyed his time with me, he even said he would like to see me again. but I don't understand why such a well know hobbiest would act in that manner. if he wanted a girl to do GREEK then why not seek a provider that offers that on her menu. There are plenty of providers that offer that and would see him being that he has several reviews and white listings I guess for future reference what do I do in that situation because the last thing I want is to leave some one unhappy and get a bad review Xoxo kayden
That the particular item he is looking for is not available but that you would be glad to do "insert something here that you enjoy-like-do". Sometimes I feel that gentlemen would try to introduce you to new things that you don't feel comfortable with, declining should not be grounds for a bad review when in fact you did everything to make him happy according to your services.
Sometimes "if you don't know, ask" applies so some guys will ask about various things. After all, if it's not on the regular menu, it MIGHT be available of the VIP or special friends' menu. I've asked and been denied "extras" from time to time, sometimes with sad apologies. I have to say, That's OK! That's OK! I was just asking because I didn't know!
"If she says NO, it's NO!" should also apply but the way you describe this guy he sounds kind of pushy. It sounds you handled things fairly well. As others said, If you're not comfortable doing something, don't do it
...That the providers were gullible and bought all his manipulative sweet talk or he behaved in a way that made her uncomfortable but offered a BIG tip…which is yet another form of manipulation. Stick to your guns because only YOU get to decided who does what to your body. Whitelists & lots of reviews does not mean he's a good guy. Form your own judgements based on the way he treated YOU. At this point DON'T see him again because clearly you are not on the same page and he's seems like a guy who really has no respect for providers but things that if the price is right he can get whatever he wants when in fact, we are not all that stupid & easy.
Posted By: Kayden_love.lv
I saw a well reviewed hobbiest with litterally like 30 submitted reviews and several white listings. during our session he was very nice I will not say his name or even any thing bad about him but I was put in a position I did not feel comfortable about. he kept trying to get me to do something that was not listed on my Menu. I told him kindly several times that I don't offer that. .. i made sure that he enjoyed his time with me, he even said he would like to see me again. but I don't understand why such a well know hobbiest would act in that manner. if he wanted a girl to do GREEK then why not seek a provider that offers that on her menu. There are plenty of providers that offer that and would see him being that he has several reviews and white listings I guess for future reference what do I do in that situation because the last thing I want is to leave some one unhappy and get a bad review Xoxo kayden
life, if you do not ask, you'll never get. I certainly do not fault him for asking you about Greek. There are ladies who do not post it as offered on their "service menus", but may acquiesce with the right client in the right situation.
However, no means no. When he asked and you politely declined, that should have been the end of the conversation. If he persisted and made you feel uncomfortable, he's just not a client you want to see again. It sounds like you did the right thing in trying to make sure he enjoyed his time with you. Beyond that, if you have a dissatisfied client, there is not much else you can do but try your best to appease. You can't worry about a bad review. Most experienced hobbyists will not let a bad review deter them from an appointment if all else looks good.
Some guys will always push the envelope, and because of their so called "hobby rep" they think they can manipulate new providers into doing things they are not comfortable with. Save all email correspondence with said client in case he decides to be an ass and write a bad review because you refused this service. Wait til you get the guys who try to slip off the condom.
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